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Topic: Its love important in life or achieve your career
Heels08's photo
Sat 01/19/08 10:33 PM
i want to know your answer

68chevy's photo
Sat 01/19/08 10:35 PM
The answer is....yes!!

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 01/19/08 10:35 PM
WHATS YOUR ANSWER ???

Heels08's photo
Sat 01/19/08 10:35 PM
achieving my career

madamx7316's photo
Sat 01/19/08 10:35 PM
career..i dont believe in love

JMEEGE27's photo
Sat 01/19/08 10:36 PM
Do I have to choose? I'm striving for both...

Heels08's photo
Sat 01/19/08 10:37 PM
i believe in love but all the pain its coming to me now its like i have to say some negative things to people

shan1987's photo
Sat 01/19/08 10:37 PM
i say try you damnedest for both. if not. i think love is what will keep you going

yic17's photo
Sat 01/19/08 10:38 PM
laugh ... heels is gonna be b****ing about MirrorMirror again ...

Love is more important because without it, there's no point to be living even if you're a multi-millionaire who can't make anyone love you.

I'd rather have a regular job and be in love with girls all the time :wink:

shan1987's photo
Sat 01/19/08 10:39 PM

i believe in love but all the pain its coming to me now its like i have to say some negative things to people

i know its corny. but "this to shall pass" my grandma told me that all the time.. and its true. and you will not believe it until you realize its you that can make or break your life, no one else

WhiteSox0507's photo
Sat 01/19/08 11:45 PM
You need to balance 3 aspects of life. They are Health, Wealth, and Love. Focus too much on one and neglect the others, your quality of life suffers.

lonelyshorty's photo
Sun 01/20/08 12:23 AM
Love by far. I'd rather have someone to love and love me in return (kinda like in Moulin Rouge) for the rest of my life than having the good job and being lonely for the rest of my life

livelife68's photo
Sun 01/20/08 12:31 AM
definitely love. my career gives me food and shelter. love satisies the heart and soul.

yokoke's photo
Sun 01/20/08 01:26 AM
You need both. While the career pays for the standards(food, housing), Love makes it (Life) all the more worthwhile when you find the One.


kaylas1515's photo
Sun 01/20/08 01:30 AM
I would rather have my career.....and surround myself by friends and family...There is always love there.....so you wont be lonley

oddonion007's photo
Sun 01/20/08 08:28 PM
My answer: You're wrong on both accounts. At least your mentality is. Truly once you begin putting your happiness outside of yourself, you cannot be filled with happiness. Once you begin telling yourself that you "need" your job because you "need" this or that(most of the time useless crap, not saying I never want lol) then your focus shifts to your job and you don't enjoy your time off because you loose sleep, allow your body to deteriorate and let a good most of your life(you spend a lot of time at work) slip by. In relationships if you become dependant on the other person for your happiness, then you destroy your relationship and usually other person in the process. If you want to be down and to suffer, that doesn't take much. To be happy takes a decision and energy (I was diagnosed as clinically depressed for a good most of my life so don't tell me it's impossible).
Simply put, if you are lucky enough to have a job, make the most out of it. Nothing's perfect but let it grow-you do not make a plant grow by pulling on it. If you are not in a relationship, allow yourself to grow. There is an AMAZING ammount to learn and I doubt that you are perfect(if you are my appologies) so you should worry about bettering youself for your love so you have all you can offer. If you are in a relationship, let it grow, like your job. Both are important and possibly life long commitments. Keep in mind "A rich person is not one who has most but one who needs least"
And no, I'm not a hippy!!!

smargirl11029's photo
Mon 01/21/08 10:59 AM
hopefully both but if not then, career

obillyo's photo
Mon 01/21/08 11:00 AM
im thinkin.......umhuh

awiserman's photo
Mon 01/21/08 12:06 PM
I would say they both are,i want true love but also want a good career to be able to be responable and provide for us

tinabelle's photo
Mon 01/21/08 07:48 PM
flowerforyou ..."faith, hope and love, these three
...but the greatest of these is love" :heart:

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