Topic: How do you know?
France1961's photo
Wed 01/16/08 07:35 PM
Probably been posted before....Anyway, how do you know if the persone you are talking to is genuine, trustworthy, and not just out there having a good time until someone better comes along......

brian325's photo
Wed 01/16/08 07:37 PM
Get references drinker

Like me, I have some on my profile smokin

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Wed 01/16/08 07:38 PM

The longer you get to know someone the more you should
know about them...

I guess the only true way is to meet them??? JMO

wouldee's photo
Wed 01/16/08 07:38 PM
ask for their PIN # and checking acct info.

thar ye be!

smokin drinker bigsmile

lifedesigner's photo
Wed 01/16/08 07:38 PM
Chat for a month or 2, meet for coffee...I had a girl fly unannounced from Canada to see me. That's what you don't want to do...just take it slow as friends. Fake people won't stick around long

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 01/16/08 07:38 PM
You have to talk to them awhile, get to know them , then see

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 01/16/08 07:38 PM

You have to talk to them awhile, get to know them , then see
thats right

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Wed 01/16/08 07:39 PM
I'm taking notes here guys... smokin

madamx7316's photo
Wed 01/16/08 07:39 PM
i usual require blood samples devil

brian325's photo
Wed 01/16/08 07:40 PM

i usual require blood samples devil


is that the only sample you want? :tongue:

wanttachat's photo
Wed 01/16/08 07:40 PM
background check, credit check, medical records really help bigsmile

KRDee's photo
Wed 01/16/08 07:41 PM
Unfortunately it's probably what you said..."they're just playing around with you until something better comes along." That is a big problem with these internet dating sites.....we all think that there is something better down the line. The best thing for us might be right in our face but we are often too distracted looking for a better deal to realize it. Keep you head up kid...the real deal will show up sooner or later:wink:

DrX's photo
Wed 01/16/08 07:42 PM

Probably been posted before....Anyway, how do you know if the persone you are talking to is genuine, trustworthy, and not just out there having a good time until someone better comes along......


hire a ex black ops soldier to follow them around, find out all the dirt. Then when you go out carry a rambo knife, and if he turns out to be a dud and he tries to push himself on ya, be like I didnt know you was into guys.

no photo
Wed 01/16/08 07:43 PM
phone number, and call them when thry least expect you,lol.
Ask address and then check?
Ask for another pic if they only show one..
And hold them to any imfo they have said but later say something else...That would help...lol
But like with me I'd let you call a exwife or one of my kids to ask them about me,wink,lol..:heart:

madamx7316's photo
Wed 01/16/08 07:44 PM


i usual require blood samples devil


is that the only sample you want? :tongue:


now brian....need you ask? you know the drill baby bigsmile

France1961's photo
Fri 01/18/08 01:45 PM
Thanks to all of you that took the time to reply.flowerforyou flowerforyou And may you find what / who you are looking for.
Best wishes .flowerforyou

kolhauszer's photo
Fri 01/18/08 04:21 PM
well i figure that when someone takes his comuter to work with him so that he can talk with you durring the day..id say that hes the genuine article...lol..call me when you get home love..


briancarr's photo
Fri 01/18/08 04:23 PM

Probably been posted before....Anyway, how do you know if the persone you are talking to is genuine, trustworthy, and not just out there having a good time until someone better comes along......
People can say whatever they want, it how you respond, and their actions that tell the real story.

MicheleNC's photo
Fri 01/18/08 04:43 PM
If you are questioning, it could be a red flag. All it takes is time.

I'd say you would have to meet in person, but there are tons of folks on here that I talk to, email with, etc, but have never met face to face. I know they are real. However, are they fig newtons of my imagination.

Just enjoy yourself!