Topic: bad case of foot in mouth now its stuck...any advice?
shadow_princess's photo
Wed 01/16/08 12:17 PM
okay yall i really need your help on this one here's the story awhile ago
i had this really awesome friend lets call him...Dylan but anyway dylan
asked me somethin and i answered him but in doing so i somehow stuck my
foot in my mouth i tried to fix it but the more i tried the worse it got at
first i was really angry and didnt miss him so i thought whatever but when
i thought about how much he was there for me and how much he made me smile
i REALLY miss him but see im not sure what i said wrong so i don't know how
to fix it all i know is its killin me because i want him to know i didnt
mean to but he wont even talk to me i was just gonna let it go but i cant i
miss him sooo bad

chuck366's photo
Wed 01/16/08 12:19 PM
what did ya say?

franshade's photo
Wed 01/16/08 12:20 PM
how about telling "dylan" this in person.
sincerity is the best form of flatteryflowerforyou

shadow_princess's photo
Wed 01/16/08 12:21 PM
i dont even remember all of it thats wut im sayin though i mean i didnt mean it the way it sounded but i dunno how he took it exactly he just got ****ty



what did ya say?



Derekkye's photo
Wed 01/16/08 12:21 PM

okay yall i really need your help on this one here's the story awhile ago
i had this really awesome friend lets call him...Dylan but anyway dylan
asked me somethin and i answered him but in doing so i somehow stuck my
foot in my mouth i tried to fix it but the more i tried the worse it got at
first i was really angry and didnt miss him so i thought whatever but when
i thought about how much he was there for me and how much he made me smile
i REALLY miss him but see im not sure what i said wrong so i don't know how
to fix it all i know is its killin me because i want him to know i didnt
mean to but he wont even talk to me i was just gonna let it go but i cant i
miss him sooo bad

Does he like you "that way"? - important information to know before proceeding

chuck366's photo
Wed 01/16/08 12:22 PM

i dont even remember all of it thats wut im sayin though i mean i didnt mean it the way it sounded but i dunno how he took it exactly he just got ****ty



what did ya say?





just apologize, people make mistakes

shadow_princess's photo
Wed 01/16/08 12:22 PM


okay yall i really need your help on this one here's the story awhile ago
i had this really awesome friend lets call him...Dylan but anyway dylan
asked me somethin and i answered him but in doing so i somehow stuck my
foot in my mouth i tried to fix it but the more i tried the worse it got at
first i was really angry and didnt miss him so i thought whatever but when
i thought about how much he was there for me and how much he made me smile
i REALLY miss him but see im not sure what i said wrong so i don't know how
to fix it all i know is its killin me because i want him to know i didnt
mean to but he wont even talk to me i was just gonna let it go but i cant i
miss him sooo bad

Does he like you "that way"? - important information to know before proceeding


i think he might have but ive never seen him that way

zanne46's photo
Wed 01/16/08 12:23 PM
what did u say??????

been there done that...

I don't say much here..but in person..what ever comes in my head shoots out the mouth...ohwell

I actually make lots of friends..lol...but there is always that one who just can't understand...

so what did u say???

kolhauszer's photo
Wed 01/16/08 12:26 PM
what will you do miss princess?..are you going to feel so dis-heartened as to make this such a huge consern in your life?...you have made an error in saying what you needed to say..perhaps it may have been expressed differently then you hoped..but..the question is..was your answer to your friend honest?..if your heart tells you yes,and have no doubt in this,then you have acted AS a friend..you have tred to reason with him..you have tried to contact him..he wont listen to what you need to say...please young lady ask yourself this question.. ...does he think of...you..as a friend..

stay young
kol..

TheShadow's photo
Wed 01/16/08 12:27 PM

okay yall i really need your help on this one here's the story awhile ago
i had this really awesome friend lets call him...Dylan but anyway dylan
asked me somethin and i answered him but in doing so i somehow stuck my
foot in my mouth i tried to fix it but the more i tried the worse it got at
first i was really angry and didnt miss him so i thought whatever but when
i thought about how much he was there for me and how much he made me smile
i REALLY miss him but see im not sure what i said wrong so i don't know how
to fix it all i know is its killin me because i want him to know i didnt
mean to but he wont even talk to me i was just gonna let it go but i cant i
miss him sooo bad
Sometimes you have to let that person cool off for a little while and see if they will come to you. i do know if you push, that it's self can make things wores. Give it time

no photo
Wed 01/16/08 12:27 PM
i'd get some good mouth wash

nuenjins's photo
Wed 01/16/08 12:35 PM
Edited by nuenjins on Wed 01/16/08 12:38 PM
Was that all one word?sick

You're a youngin', just calm down and talk to him. Never hurts to do some positive confronting, it kills anxiety and fear and let's you deal. Most worries never come true.flowerforyou

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Wed 01/16/08 12:41 PM
Apologize and tell him- his friendship means alot to you!
If he keeps ignoring you - well maybe you will have to let it go.
Hope he sees you are a friend he should'nt be without!
Good luck! flowerforyou


If he is in here- you could give him a bunch of flowers too...
:wink: Or tell him- teddy will bite him if he does'nt forgive you! bigsmile

chuck366's photo
Wed 01/16/08 12:53 PM
eat a bar of soap?

rara777's photo
Wed 01/16/08 12:58 PM
Take your hands. Take them towards your mouth. Grab a hold of your foot. Pull your foot outta your mouth..And just go on.

We have all done this a few times in our lives.