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Topic: What do u think?
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Wed 01/16/08 11:36 AM
At what age..do you think a child is able to stay home alone for a few hours?

franshade's photo
Wed 01/16/08 11:37 AM
Dont think there is an actual age, as all kids mature differently.

YourLove1's photo
Wed 01/16/08 11:37 AM
age 10

boredinaz06's photo
Wed 01/16/08 11:37 AM





you know your kid better than anybody:smile:

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Wed 01/16/08 11:42 AM
Edited by Hawaiigurl on Wed 01/16/08 11:43 AM
SO what about an 11 yr old and a 5 yr old? (My friends kids ages) and i was worried abour that age??

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Wed 01/16/08 11:44 AM

SO what about an 11 yr old and a 5 yr old? (My friends kids ages) and i was worried abour that age??

11yrs i think is ok but 5yrs no way!!

itsmetina's photo
Wed 01/16/08 11:44 AM
depends on how they act

8607's photo
Wed 01/16/08 12:34 PM
My sister started letting her oldest at age 12.

jtip1977's photo
Wed 01/16/08 12:36 PM
Absolutely depends on their maturity level. But I would say around 12 or 13. Once they become a teenager. Mine is only 4. I've got a little bit to go until I even think of leaving her alone.

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Wed 01/16/08 12:48 PM
When my daughter was 9 we pretty much had to choose between housing and daycare ..so she became a latchkey kid. She was very mature though. And I don't know about leaving an 11 year old in charge of a 5 year old. It really depends on the kids. Would there be anyone nearby that the 11 year could call for help if needed?

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Wed 01/16/08 12:50 PM
Edited by Hawaiigurl on Wed 01/16/08 12:50 PM

When my daughter was 9 we pretty much had to choose between housing and daycare ..so she became a latchkey kid. She was very mature though. And I don't know about leaving an 11 year old in charge of a 5 year old. It really depends on the kids. Would there be anyone nearby that the 11 year could call for help if needed?
i guess the mother calls them every hour or so and they jsut stay in and watch tv or play videos all day!

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Wed 01/16/08 12:51 PM
All day!! I thought you meant for a few hours. I think a 5 year old might need someone other than an 11 year in charge for a whole day.

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Wed 01/16/08 12:53 PM

All day!! I thought you meant for a few hours. I think a 5 year old might need someone other than an 11 year in charge for a whole day.
Yah thats what i think too....

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Wed 01/16/08 12:55 PM
last fall when i started my new job, i started leavin my 11 and 13 year olds home for about 4 hours while i was at work.
After a couple weeks and it was not every day tho.
After a couple weeks i got my best friend to start babysittin again. they r great kids but i realized that at their ages they push their limits and needed someone to be at the house with them.

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Wed 01/16/08 12:57 PM

last fall when i started my new job, i started leavin my 11 and 13 year olds home for about 4 hours while i was at work.
After a couple weeks and it was not every day tho.
After a couple weeks i got my best friend to start babysittin again. they r great kids but i realized that at their ages they push their limits and needed someone to be at the house with them.


my daughter was ok to be left alone from ages 9 to about 13..then she was too OLD to be left home alone. I had to put her in camps and whatnot, otherwise I would surely be a grandmother by now. She hated me at the time but now she is 17 and human again.

Shaden's photo
Wed 01/16/08 01:18 PM
Depends on the maturity. Twelve for short periods. Whole different story if they are going through a rebellious phase!

BigGlenn's photo
Wed 01/16/08 01:39 PM
My oldest is almost 11 and I'll let him hang alone if I'll be back within an hour. I also let my neighbor (a good friend) know he's alone. No longer than an hour though.

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Wed 01/16/08 01:51 PM
I think legally you can't leave a child alone until they are 11. I think it depends on how mature they are, and it depends on how much you can trust them to stay out of things.
I have 2 boys, my first son was a lot more mature then my last one. I have known some people to leave their children alone when they are as young as 9, thats something I wouldn't do...but you have to do what is needed!!

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Wed 01/16/08 02:21 PM

I think legally you can't leave a child alone until they are 11. I think it depends on how mature they are, and it depends on how much you can trust them to stay out of things.
I have 2 boys, my first son was a lot more mature then my last one. I have known some people to leave their children alone when they are as young as 9, thats something I wouldn't do...but you have to do what is needed!!


Honestly the laws differ by state. I did check with child welfare first because I did not want to get arrested. There were a list of conditions that had to be met but I could leave her home after school legally. I wished at the time I didn't have to but later I was glad I did. She is so much more self-sufficient than her friends. There is good and bad in every choice you have to make.

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Wed 01/16/08 02:35 PM

At what age..do you think a child is able to stay home alone for a few hours?
Depends on the maturity of the child... my 12 year old daughter stayed home alone for 3 hours after school.. while my 16 year old step son... I'd never leave home alone :D

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