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Topic: IS THERE SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME?
lonelyshorty Joined Mon 10/15/07 Posts: 4737	Mon 01/14/08 06:54 PM
good you?

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 01/14/08 06:55 PM
How come you have not gone on a date in 3 years? I am not sure, I have been out with girlfriends at clubs and bars and socials...maybe guys dont think i am attractive. If your happy being single thats awesome, But you are attractive

angelsfall63 Joined Wed 12/26/07 Posts: 15	Mon 01/14/08 06:55 PM
I have not dated in four years.I was sick of being in realationships with loser,jerks. I have been taking this time to get my own life on track.I have a career now,and i've just bought my very first home. And although i truly love men,for the first time,I don't NEED one. I think ur family is just worried u will end up alone. What really matters here is that YOU are happy with YOU!

tsw123 Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 380	Mon 01/14/08 06:58 PM
when you are ready to date you will know it, so don't worry about what others think. your family is most likely just worried about you being lonely. assure them that you aren't, and keep living your life the way you want.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Mon 01/14/08 06:59 PM
good you? good. good to see you around.

irad8you Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 8261	Mon 01/14/08 07:00 PM
I am happy being alone, i am nothing special, but i hope someone comes along and blows my doors off and i hope i do the same to them, until then i am content, my clock is not ticking.

Lonelysingle Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 102	Mon 01/14/08 07:12 PM
I have been posting and getting some good advice so maybe I can get help with this one.... I haven't dated a guy in over three years. My whole family thinks I am a lesbian (which I don't find anything wrong with to each is own).... And they also think its unnatural for me to be alone that long and be happy about it. Is it normal to not feel the need to be in a relationship to be happy or am I just in denial of wanting to be in one? Hon, you just said it right there. To each his own. If you are happy then that's all that matters. Doesn't matter what others say. If you are happy screw them. I personally like to be in one, but there are times when I didn't like it and not I don't think you are in denial. Do what makes you happy.

oceanprince Joined Wed 09/05/07 Posts: 95	Mon 01/14/08 07:12 PM
some people are comfortable being alone for different lengths of time.. not that there is a great deal wrong with that but thje underlying factor is that there always is a reason why this is the case. for example, a bad relationship, a demanding job, a single parent with little or no time. almost every time, the decision to be alone is not purely by choice . just another girl is not exactly saying that by choice she wants to be alone. in fact she thinks that" the boys at the clubs may not find her attractive". you are quite an attractive lady. perhaps,you falsely exhibit signs to the opposite sex that you are not interested in relationships, or dating. this may be the factor that keep men away from you. its like a wall that some people unknowingly build to protect themselves from getting hurt in relationships. nothing is wrong with being alone for short lengths of time. but enjoying and shearing the love and affection of some one who loves and care for you is a wonderful feeling.so, justanothergirl you are special and not just another girl.