Okay, here goes and before I start, I am not HURT at ALL!!!
I met a lady on a dating site and we emailed for several weeks. Then we
started talking on the phone. She called me several times before the
holidays and we were going to meet after the holidays. Well, Wed. of
last week was the last time I talked to her. I left her several phone
messages and never got a response. So I emailed her a little note and
she read it and never responded. So is it cold feet or what?? I am
definately not hurt or upset, maybe a little hurt feelings or pride??
LMAO, let me know what ya'll think.
Nerves

just keep it on the back burner...we never know what the hell is going
on in the background when we're not there first hand...

in defense of this woman, nerves...it's the holidays...she could very
well just be busy..


in no way am i offering excuses, she should at least be honest with ya,
regardless...

if you don't know what's goin on over there with her, ya can't assume,
so..chin up, keep positive and have patience..

nothing but the best for ya nerves..

LG

True ellgee, at least a "I've decided I'm not interested" would be
better than just blowing one off. As I said, no love or blood lost on
this one. \
Poison, true also, but with all that is happening, whatever it might be,
a phone call is not that hard. Espically if you can find time to get on
the internet and read your mail!!

Well, I am off to work. Have a nice day and I will read this later.
Thanks for the input so far.
Nerves

I would keep it on the backburner. At least until the holidays are over.
After that if she still doesn't respond to any emails or phone calls,
just forget about it. she by then would be to immature to even offer a
i'm not interested anymore excuse. Also consider yourself lucky at least
you got to talk to her for awhile. Most women I email or wink at at
don't even respond to me.

SHE COULD HAVE NOT BEEN WHAT SHE SAID SHE WAS,
AND DID'NT KNOW HOW TO TELL YOU SO SHE THOUGHT SHE WOULD DO IT IN PERSON
BUT THEN CHICKEN OUT.

OR JUST PLAIN COLD FEET, BUT IF SHE WAS REAL ABOUT WANTING TO MEET YOU
SHE WILL PROBABLY CALL YA WHEN SHE GET HER NERVES, HERVES, NO PUN
INTENDED,,,,,WHILE JUST A BIT. LOL

Well regardless the least she could do is respond even if it was a very
short note either she has had a change of heart or meet someone else
that has caught her attention. Just my thoughts. Sorry I cant see that
anyone is too busy to respond back from a phone call or e-mail.

well im new here hope to find a nice lady who knows what she wants

I have to agree with ya there Ms. TXS"...got too busy?
don't think it takes too long to reply to an email or call,

but it feels to me that see may have computer probs,
or may not be at hers...

give it time,it is the holidays ya know...
feice navidad....y'all.........lol........M.1313

i had that happen before!... she probably talking to more than just you!
seems like some gals have a back up plan!...out of site out of mind kind
of thing.

to be honest with you Nerves, just a response to let you know why she
changed her mind would be a nice thing to do on her part
but I think it was just rude!! of her.

Thanks for your replies. My last email to her was "Hi XXXX,
Just wanted to drop you a line and see if you had a good Thanksgiving.
And to make sure all is well. Hope to talk to you soon.
Mike

Sent 11-28-06
Like I said, no loss here, just wanted some opinions and thanks!
Nerves

I 've got a solution guy.

When she finally rights back to you. Just ignore it for a while. Give
her a taste of her own medicine. LOL

That should teach them. LOL

No ghost, I am not in to games and if she dosen't want to respond, then
so be it. No loss here, maybe hers but maybe not.
Never know!
Nerves

geesh, i sense some bitterness on this subject.

My take, she's married. And it went too far. She's bailed out. Move
on.

just my opinion nerves but if you left a couple of messages i would just
let it go and move on, she may or may not try to catch up to you later
and you can find out then if you are still intereted. there are a
million reasons and most of them aren't shady but either way there are
plenty of people who want to meet a good person.

The only excuse would be an accident and she's in the hospital or
something like that.

BEEN THERE BEFORE!... SHES A PLAYER DONT WALK FROM HER...run!!!

Instinct would tell me....... as you said..... don't walk
away............ RUN as fast as you can