Sorry that happened to you Nerves, I agree with Desertgirl. Similar
with me, wrote someone every night 2-3 hours for about 3-4 weeks, then
poof, then 2-3 weeks later came on for about 1/2 hour, been stressed
blah, blah, have to go away for a few days, will write when I get back,
was a couple of weeks ago, still poof. I agree the worst part is the no
response. At least say so long, common courtesy is nice these days.
Glad you didn't have more invested in the relationship. Take care.

Okay, I only called 2 times and left very short messages asking about
her Thanksgiving and If all was okay. Only 1 email, and ya'll saw it in
it's entiorety. Far as I'm concerened it is a dead issue. Just wanted
some coments as to why a person would do that. She called me more times
than I called her. Supposedly divorced 7 years and I actually felt like
I was on an interview on the phone but was hoping to actually meet her
for a drink or coffee to meet her. This is actually no big deal to me at
all!
Thanks, Nerves (Mike)

HI ROSES.

sounds like you don't need any advice or imput... you have it figured
out... and hi

Going to sound strange but does that lady live in NJ by chance? I know
of a lady that lives there who had a stroke on thanksgiving day and a
second one that night. The second one left her completely paralyzed. The
hospital when trying to find out what caused the strokes diagnosed her
with brain cancer. For your sake I hope it is not her. However, as I
knew this woman personally my prayers go out to her and probably will
till the day she goes into the next life.

Hey Nerve,

Since you put this up here for the Peanut Gallery: You mentioned that
you're Not into games but your friends list ranges anywhere from 12
years - 31 years younger than you so strap yourself in and be prepared
to Play the game (Because this one is playing games with you).

As someone previously mentioned, she'll get in contact with you (when
your number comes up) and she'll have one of the lamest excuses you've
heard....but who cares? If you decide to keep on playing you'll buy the
excuse or at least pretend to buy it for your turn. If you decide to
take your turn; whatever you do keep yourself strapped in because it's
going to be one hell of a ride.

it's funny because you have to consider how people react when they are
lonely or hurt. alot of people on a dating site were hurt in there last
relationship so they play little games just to see if they are
attractive to other people to get an ego boost. alot of people do it but
it is not normal. everyone gets emotional sometimes and it is not a deep
psychological issue but healthy minded people do not act that way.

Let some time go by and see. You never know. As some have said maybe she
had an accident or maybe she just needs a little space. If you think
there is something there then cool your heels a little and see what
happens. Extended silence should give you your answer. In that
event.........move on at that point.

She also could be having phone or computer issues. My future wife in
Alabama does all the time. Unless you are there you really don't know my
friend. Best to you always.