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Hell no what are you thinking Are u thinking? Tell her to talk to the hand:) now thats an old one huh:)
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 I turned a guy down that had 523 (all girl) friends & of course sent no note first (I love that) & didn't even respond when I was polite enough to send a note saying why I didnt want to be on a trophy list.. |
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seriously, if she is going to try and get all possessive now- that is a warning she is playing games from the start or a nut. It is the internet- friends list doesn't mean anything unless you are meeting up with these ladies for "intimate" encounters.
Although I only have two people on my list, it could be 2 or 20, I correspond to them and don't expect anything out of it so there for if one tries some weird "...drop the other." crap, forget it. I have noticed on here how people tend to just disappear from contacting you because their boyfriends, or whatever, in real life don't approve. Unless you met her and there is something there- fugetaboutit. :) |
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well that is not as bad as what I did , the last couple days I found a certain person on here and she asked me to delete all my friends and she would be there and true to me , well guesse what , don't fall for that one .... and have a great night ... You are not the only one this has happened to. I have seen it from the other end. I was having nice conversations with a gentleman here. (I am well aware that everyone talks to more than one person at a time on these sites.) The "other" woman he was chatting with demanded he delete all his friends, or she wouldn't talk to him any more. I was one of those 5 or 6 friends. (When you delete your friends the Testimonials you left for them dissappear too.) I guess I'm not a normal female. When I see someone has friends, and they write a book on how nice you are, I see a person that is well liked... NOT a player!!! Well, I was quite upset at being deleted. And the excuse that this other person made such a demand, and it was followed.... well it p1ssed me off. It made me feel VERY insignificant. I told the gentleman to watch out for this other person to make other demands... like... STOP TALKING TO YOUR FAMILY!!!! Insecure people tend to be very controlling. Is this who any one of us want to be our happily ever after? |
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i think people with alot of women on their list are not serious about finding one woman just my thoughts I agree with ya 100% If ANYONE ONLY HAS ""ALL"" the OPPISITE SEX on their FRIENDS LIST, then YES, I would say they might be PLAYERS!!!    OK, I won't say YOUR a player, but to be here and NOT make any guy friends, is at least, very one sided to FRIENDS here, I mean im all about women but I have from the start here also made male friends. And if I met a lady here who had NO LADIES as friends, she was A PLAYER! NOT ALL, but SHE was... Its just a place t5o look at if one wanted to check.. AND come-on, IF YOU were a player, and THAT just busted YOU, WHAT THE HELL WOULD YA HAVE TO SAY, but it wasn't true,lol,lol NOT THAT IT IS......never mind,,,lol  I would not say that exactly, cos i have tons of friends, many different sexs, and you can check my myspace for that, but on here, im actually looking for the right women, and dont wanna meet up with men. so yeah on this site i have all women friends, but that doesn't mean im a playa. |
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Variety is the spice of life
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i think people with alot of women on their list are not serious about finding one woman just my thoughts I love it..!! So, since you only have males on your list, you're telling us that you are (and I quote you) "not serious about finding one man (- the wo)" |
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i think people with alot of women on their list are not serious about finding one woman just my thoughts I love it..!! So, since you only have males on your list, you're telling us that you are (and I quote you) "not serious about finding one man (- the wo)" Groovy...very happy for you. None the less, your statement is hypocritical (to a tee). Just stating the obvious <insert mirror here> 
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well that is not as bad as what I did , the last couple days I found a certain person on here and she asked me to delete all my friends and she would be there and true to me , well guesse what , don't fall for that one .... and have a great night ... Run from that crap!!!! 
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well that is not as bad as what I did , the last couple days I found a certain person on here and she asked me to delete all my friends and she would be there and true to me , well guesse what , don't fall for that one .... and have a great night ... Run from that crap!!!! |
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& yes I'll look at a person's friends list.
Heck I've been here long enough to know the players don'tcha think? & you can see paterns. you can see people that play in here. you can see guys that have trophy gurls.  Just don't look that I don't have any boy toys! 
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You should never have to give up your "friends" for anybody..
That is a twisted insecure person.. OMG! Just think if you like were gone to the store too long??? |
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ME THINKS,,,,,HMMMM,,, ANYONE WHO TRYS TO TELL ME "DITCH YOUR FRIENDS FOR ME TO BE YOUR FRIEND" SHOULD BE IN PRIMARY SCHOOL AND IS NOT MY FRIEND
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jsut a thought.. i have a lot of men on my page.. i have a lot of women on my page..
but these people are my FRIENDS!! these are generaly not people that i am planning on hookin up with.. these are people that i plan to hang out with... these are the people that have held my hand when i was weak.. wiped my tears when i was sad.. and who have congratulated me on my good days.. and have made me smile when no others could.... so i guess.. ya defenately turn on your frineds for a woman who is obvioulsy to shallow to care about you anyway.. if you are really asking this question of us... are you really a friend of theirs?? do they really want you on their friends list if you wont stick it out.  my 2 cents. |
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i think people with alot of women on their list are not serious about finding one woman just my thoughts I love it..!! So, since you only have males on your list, you're telling us that you are (and I quote you) "not serious about finding one man (- the wo)" but you have a lot of male friends on there... so are you serious about finding "the one"??? i dont know why anyone would judge someone by their friends list.. i have a CRAZY thought!!! how about we just judge them on their profile.. tehir pictures.. and their personality... you know.. who they are.... i know that thought is prolly to crazy to comprehend... ok lets go back to grade school and judge everyone by their friends....
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your friends list is just that, friends, and yours, that type of being jealous or possessive isn't healthy. |
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i think people with alot of women on their list are not serious about finding one woman just my thoughts That's a shame.  I've made some great friends on JSH; yes, they're mostly women, but that doesn't mean I'm trying to score with dozens of women. I'm searching for "the one" but I like making friends too. I wouldn't be intimidated by a girl who has a lot of guys on her friends list; it's called a FRIENDS list for a reason. The favourites list, on the other hand.... |
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you shouldnt have to change anything , its a friends list...not a marriage proposel list ...just ignore hun
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not right at all. i have men and women of all ages on my friends list...thats just crazy!
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Don't go changing your life around because someone has a bug up THEIR butt.
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