So i am at this bar last night.I was looking at one girl all night,she looked at me a few times also.So i go outside to smoke and here comes the same chick.She is looking at me up and down and says "you know if you cut your hair you would look so much better"I am in shock here dont know what to say! So i blurt out you know if you lost maybe 10 or 20 pounds you would look really good.Whack ! i get slapped! People tell me isnt it almost the same thing she told me? Double standard again the chick can say whatever she wants but us guys cant!!! Somebody help me was i really a jerk?

never ever go into a discussion about a womans #1 weight #2 age, you,ll get slapped and crashburned

Not really... Men and women alike are sensitive about their weight, but women even more so then men. Plus, telling someone they should loose weight is almost as insulting as calling them a ***** on today's society. You could have returned the same comment "you should cut your hair", or said something, like, about coloring her fingernails, or perhaps an article of clothing.

Although I'm sure it was just a misunderstanding, it probably was taken as a serious insult.

mother nature ? you,ll see her true side with those questions

a good answer i would have to agree but sarcasm seldom gets one laid ..maybe she was a hair stylist and was just trying to start a conversation ..alcohol has a tendency to make us engage our mouth before our brain ..but still kinda funny ..better luck next time ..

What about just thanking her for her opinion and changing the subject?? You know..using your manners?

good insight.........

think before you speak, and try to see it from the other persons point of view. I see that this whole method was completely ignored, but lifes a learning leason, you never stop learning.......

OMG....lmao...wow, some people have balls...even some of the ladies nowdays...I wish I could have been there...hon

Yes it is a double-standard. Yes you were a jerk. Sorry to be blunt, butit could have been handled much smoother.

Sorry hon...
I was'nt laughing at you....It is just I can't believe how some people are nowdays....

Dont stress about it. Sounds like the girl was sort of a bi**h in the first place. I hate double standards. IMO if she had the nerve to comment about something *you* needed to change then she should have expected it.

lol sounds like she was a hairstylist and drumming up business........

if she wasn't prepared to take it...she should not have dished it out.... no need to be polite to a woman that doesn't deserve it....

This is funny to me!

Yes there is always the double standard. Altho opinions are not always the best pick up lines, I agree with the fact that she could have been a stylist which still doesnt make things right. Im still laughing, this is funny, people are so silly.

you did the right thing

no double standards here....if she would have kept her mouth shut...she would not have been told she was fat!!!!!


good job

im really sorry i slapped you

NEVER comment on a womans weight, i dont care if youve been married for 50 years...it might be a double standard, idk. believe me, youll get more dates this way. ps- i love that you said that tho- i wouldve slapped you too

So I see people think if she did hair for a living its proabably ok.what if I'm a weight loss spiecalist would that have made it ok?I wish I had more time to think of a comeback.Here's the moral of the story when I told my story to my buddy the bartender overheard I didn't pay for the rest of the night