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hi sweetie~~~
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You are my first lurk!
Moving on now. 
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i agree...one very horrible comment about a paralized woman comes to mind...emotions can make people say very ugly things..but adults have the god given sence of reasoning befor acting out on impulses I agree....especially when you can read it again before it is seen, unlike real words in the real world.  forgive me miss kiroto i finally understood what you meant lol..yes exactly..after someone makes a post he or she can go through it a few times before pressing the post button,,so in my mind..this man actually meant what he said..very frightening actually |
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Very well said and I agree with you whole heartly. I have sat and watched the hate and the words spill upon the page. It is sad that as Adults we can't bite our tounges at times and at least use better words than what some put upon the page. Life is cruel from the time we are born. I have taught my kids to respect others feelings. Even if they ask you to be honest they are not asking you to put it in such a harsh way. There are correct ways to put things and ways it should never be put.
Ones also need to learn that it is not society that made people hateful it is what is within that does. If the only thing that comes out of ones mouth is hateful things that hurt others. It is time that they need to sit back and look within to see why there is so much hate inside.  HATE BREWS HATE!!!  So take the time and say a few kind words instead you will see that in return you will receive kindness as well. 
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Very well said and I agree with you whole heartly. I have sat and watched the hate and the words spill upon the page. It is sad that as Adults we can't bite our tounges at times and at least use better words than what some put upon the page. Life is cruel from the time we are born. I have taught my kids to respect others feelings. Even if they ask you to be honest they are not asking you to put it in such a harsh way. There are correct ways to put things and ways it should never be put. Ones also need to learn that it is not society that made people hateful it is what is within that does. If the only thing that comes out of ones mouth is hateful things that hurt others. It is time that they need to sit back and look within to see why there is so much hate inside. HATE BREWS HATE!!! So take the time and say a few kind words instead you will see that in return you will receive kindness as well. Thank you........ 
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Just going to keep this moving so that others read it....maybe a few will get something out of it....
Have a great day everyone...
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Good post!
Yes there are real people behind these screens and I believe some tend to forget that! If your mean- it just shows us what you really are like! So think twice!
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Some people don t think in general
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Edited by
chuck366
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Mon 01/14/08 09:07 AM
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Some people don t think in general |
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True the world can be cold but the people in it can be colder!!!
What amazes me is I do sit back and watch and read what others have to say. I learn alot from what they do write upon these pages. I have learned a lot about others that has made me take a second look at them as well. Once thinking they were one way but finding out in the end that was not so. There are those that portray one side but then unleashes the other upon someone else within these forums not even thinking that others will read it therfore it changes your opinion about them. It just amazes me at times. |
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Some people don t think in general Yes, some of them do ask for off the wall comments, but I can usually comment on them without trying to hurt someone....if I feel it is going to hurt someone I don't post it or I am ready to face the music for my actions. None of us are perfect, but we should at least try to show some compation and self restraint when dealing with only words and not facial expressions and body language to go with them. JMO
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Edited by
chuck366
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Mon 01/14/08 09:22 AM
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some people have no personal conviction,or common sense, thats just life i guess for some.
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Some people don t think in general Yes, some of them do ask for off the wall comments, but I can usually comment on them without trying to hurt someone....if I feel it is going to hurt someone I don't post it or I am ready to face the music for my actions. None of us are perfect, but we should at least try to show some compation and self restraint when dealing with only words and not facial expressions and body language to go with them. JMO For sure what happen to DO UNTO OTHERS AS YOU WOULD HAVE THEM DO UNTO YOU!!!!!
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or lying, stealing , so forth and so on. Commit adultry..............or even the big one "commitment" "marriage" eg........
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or lying, stealing , so forth and so on. Commit adultry..............or even the big one "commitment" "marriage" eg........ Humm well Chuck now lets just start with others learning how to be nice to others first think that is the basic of were a lot of problems lay in this day and time. As far as the all those you said I'm with ya on those I don't understand my self but then if I could fix those things I would be in my 27th year of still being married instead we were married 11. If everyone believed in those things maybe then maybe those things would not have ended mine but................... I could not solve what he did nor understand it so at times we just have to move on and hope to find one that does take those things serious in life. |
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some are made with incapatibility--and some not willing to grow up--
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Ah too true, I suppose some people feel that they can just let it “all hang out” so to speak oblivious to the consequences. There not actually being a person there in front of em may make it all the easier to let loose all the dark parts of their mind. It’s a shame, the way I see it is may it be digital or life were all humans here and deserve to be treated as such, I guess some folks still have a lot of growing up to do.
As for people who act like that in real life, solve that and we solve all the worlds conflicts, lol. I’m thinking it stems from some sort of deep seeded insecurity and poor self image or something of the sort. All we can do about that lot is try and treat them with understanding no matter how vile they may seem, if we treat them with the same venom we’ll just wind up poisoning ourselves in the end right? Hate begets more hate as they say- Dan~ |
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See lots of hating in some threads.....just moving it back up to the top. Sorry.
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I often lurk and don't post and watch some of the people and what they have to say. I often wonder if people honestly think about what they say and how much it could hurt someone else. I mean seriously.......aren't we on a dating site to at the minimum meet friends. Why would anyone want to be friends with anyone that is down right mean and disrespectful to the point that an all our war starts? I am finding that some don't have enough respect for themselves let alone respect for others. Everyone says something they don't mean once in awhile, but some of this stuff is down right evil and mean. I see the excuses like.......they asked for the opinion so they got mine, yet they don't realize that being nasty to someone else has given others an opinion about them. I'm just wondering why some place that gives all of these people right to you in the click of a few keys for free do we have to make it so ugly and mean. Do people think that being a smart a$$ is attractive? Maybe my reasons are differnt for being her than others. The forums are a way to show people what type of person you are. Please try to remember that when you post something nasty and hurtful to someone.  |
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I find there are several people that love to argue on these forums and others. It's a very good way to learn who to stay the hell away from.
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