Topic: WHY,WHY,WHY?
Enya's photo
Thu 01/10/08 08:05 PM
SORRY GUY'S....

I JUST KEEP WONDERING WHY YA KEEP VIEWING ME.

BUT THERES NEVER A MESSAGE.sad

COME ON.....I DONT BITE :tongue:

evilolive's photo
Thu 01/10/08 08:06 PM
its weird how they do that, isnt it?

no photo
Thu 01/10/08 08:06 PM
They're all wondering what the heck your picture is of. lol.

mnhiker's photo
Thu 01/10/08 08:07 PM
Posting a real picture
instead of avatars might
help.

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 01/10/08 08:08 PM
I don't know about all guys but my problem is that I'm too shy:smile: ( I know it's dumb)

kkoldazice's photo
Thu 01/10/08 08:09 PM
i don't know why it happens... but it does. and it's annoying as helll!!!!!!

Bftroop's photo
Thu 01/10/08 08:10 PM
Yeah I don't want to contact a cartoon as cool as the pics are.

Most don't know what to say. Especially from the guy's side basically most of the women have heard all the lines. And a simple Hi just doesn't cut it on the dating sites.

jvc534's photo
Thu 01/10/08 08:10 PM
110 profile views...not 1 message :P...don't worry it happens to guys too

Bftroop's photo
Thu 01/10/08 08:11 PM
Hey send me an e-mail or two with an approach and i'll let ya know if your doin it wrong. LOL.

Enya's photo
Thu 01/10/08 08:13 PM
Edited by Enya on Thu 01/10/08 08:18 PM
WELL,BTFROOP,I DID JOIN THIS SITE WITH MY REAL PIC....

BUT,I NEVER FOUND A MAN...SO NOW....ITS JUST DRAWINGS,SONGS,FRIENDS,AND FORUMS!

glasses

bgeorge's photo
Thu 01/10/08 08:15 PM
yeah and it's the same ones over and over again...sometimes i delete them and 5 seconds later they're back...and this one nameless/shameless guy keeps professing his love and poetry and crapola for his "soulmate" in the forums...but every time i log in he's been "looking" again...wtf...i've never spoken to him via e-mail or in the forums either

Bftroop's photo
Thu 01/10/08 08:16 PM

WELL,BTFROOP,I DID JOIN THIS SITE WITH MY REAL PIC....

BUT,I NEVER FOUND A MAN...SO NOW....ITS JUST DRAWINS,SONGS,FRIENDS,AND FORUMS!

glasses


Amazingly, what you say makes a huge difference. Unfortunately you have to say what others think is attractive. People love clever. Say something clever and fun. Something that shows a bit about who and how you are.

Hope that helps

Bftroop's photo
Thu 01/10/08 08:20 PM
I struggled with it a bit at first and was a bit picky, but honestly be true to you. People want to meet People that have real lives. The biggest problem with online dating is that it is not real enough because people can say and be what they want. Want more people to pay attention to your profile be extrodinary not ordinary. But most of all stay true to who you are. And don't be afraid to say what you are really looking for.


AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Thu 01/10/08 08:21 PM

Posting a real picture
instead of avatars might
help.


Exactly what I was thinking!

johncarl's photo
Thu 01/10/08 09:05 PM

110 profile views...not 1 message :P...don't worry it happens to guys too
203 1 message

JaceKnows's photo
Thu 01/10/08 09:11 PM
77 views in the last 30 days. No messages. I think that's some sort of record for not-my-fault futility. <sigh>