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Topic: What Do I Do
ImWhtUWnt19's photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:00 PM
Ok heres the problem im having...
Last night me ad my boyfriend were talking and for the first time he said I love you and when he said I froze up and didnt know what to say and still dont!!!
I mean yes I do love him but im shy saying it
What do I do someone please help me

ImWhtUWnt19's photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:03 PM
Someone please help me how do I get over my fear and just tell him back that I love him

Jill298's photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:04 PM

Someone please help me how do I get over my fear and just tell him back that I love him
just say it man... it's not that hard. If you really feel it then just say it. You're making it much more difficult than it is.

no photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:04 PM
Well, that is a "shy" part you NEED to GET OVER!

It's understandable, BUT that is a NEEDED communication that your partner will NEED to hear.

EVERYONE "needs" to hear that from the other person..along with the actions behind it.

So I understand you may be shy, but your partner will NEED to hear that from you. And the more you say it,,,the easier it will get.

Good luck!

no photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:05 PM
maybe youre not at that level yet.....but I know where youre at....except the gay partlaugh

ImWhtUWnt19's photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:06 PM
I hope so...
I honestlyu do love him and its juss I dont wanna rush into saying I love you and then screw things up between us

Turtlepoet78's photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:07 PM

Ok heres the problem im having...
Last night me ad my boyfriend were talking and for the first time he said I love you and when he said I froze up and didnt know what to say and still dont!!!
I mean yes I do love him but im shy saying it
What do I do someone please help me


Try telling him what you just said, that you do love him but that you have trouble saying it. Open communication is a major part in succsesful relationships;^]

ImWhtUWnt19's photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:09 PM
I think I might try that it sounds like a good idea and it sounds easy enough for me to do without getting shy

no photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:09 PM
well it is 3 pretty powerful words spoken to the right person , right ?.. so IF that is how you feel ?.. let it out .. glasses

no photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:09 PM


Ok heres the problem im having...
Last night me ad my boyfriend were talking and for the first time he said I love you and when he said I froze up and didnt know what to say and still dont!!!
I mean yes I do love him but im shy saying it
What do I do someone please help me


Try telling him what you just said, that you do love him but that you have trouble saying it. Open communication is a major part in succsesful relationships;^]


AGREED! bigsmile

Amalie's photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:10 PM
I think people often confuse LOVE and LUST....

and its not hard... even in a straight relationship.. however in alternative relationships i think you need to make sure this is what you want and how you feel... Its going ot take alot to make it...and you will need LOVE to make it...

All I am saying is....Make sure!!!
If you are not ready to say it...dont...perhaps I care for you??might work.

Turtlepoet78's photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:15 PM

I think I might try that it sounds like a good idea and it sounds easy enough for me to do without getting shy


Sometimes for me talking about my feelings was always pretty hard, but it's always important. Good luck to you and yours, and don't feel too bad saying the L word is a hard one for most of us;^]

ImWhtUWnt19's photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:15 PM
Thats true...
Thats all I wanna do is make sure that the timing is right you knoww...

Knotworthy's photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:18 PM
Be very sure, once you say it it's out there and you can't take it back

no photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:19 PM
did he say I love you in the throes of passion??? Cause that doesnt count!!!:wink: laugh laugh laugh

ImWhtUWnt19's photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:19 PM
I wanna say it I really do its just past realationships have fcuked with my head where now I have a really hard time saying itt

Knotworthy's photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:22 PM
I know what you mean exactly
How long have you been together?

ImWhtUWnt19's photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:25 PM
Were goin on a month...
But this is the BESt realationship Ive been in ever thats why I can honestly say I love him...
Were together all the time he sleeps over non-stopp so thats why I dont understand why I cant say I love you

ImWhtUWnt19's photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:26 PM
Were goin on a month...
But this is the BESt realationship Ive been in ever thats why I can honestly say I love him...
Were together all the time he sleeps over non-stopp so thats why I dont understand why I cant say I love you

Knotworthy's photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:29 PM
I think that's awfully soon to be using the L word
It's not something you just throw around

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