Topic: What Do I Do
ImWhtUWnt19's photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:30 PM
I knoww but honestly its how I feel and also I think whats holding me abck is the fact ht we only been dating for a month

itsmetina's photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:32 PM
yes a month is a short time to say i love you.i guess its had if hes already saying it.tell him you need time

Knotworthy's photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:33 PM
I went out with a girl for a couple of months recently, neither one of us said it, I coundn't ever see myself saying it so I had to break it off even though I liked her a lot. When you use the L word it means you are ready to commit

ImWhtUWnt19's photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:33 PM
I think thats what im gonna have to do...
I mean ok yes im very happy with him but I honestly dont think im ready to say i love you to him yett

Knotworthy's photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:36 PM
Edited by Knotworthy on Tue 01/08/08 12:38 PM
I think that's a good idea. You're still young, you've got a lot of living ahead of you, take your time.
Take it from an old fart like me who's been around and made a lot of dumb mistakes.

ImWhtUWnt19's photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:40 PM
Yeaa...
And maybe you can help me widd this lil problem im having I got my cellphone bill and I went ove my miutes because of him and me talking all the time and my phones about to be shut off and I told him my phone might be shut off and he insisted on giving me money to help pay for the bill and I wont let him but he keeps insisting on it...
I dont want him to feel as though he has to fix my mistakes just for me stay widd him and make me happy

chuck366's photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:41 PM
print out this post and give it to him to read

Knotworthy's photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:43 PM
excellent idea Chuck
It'll show him how torn up you are over this and if he really does care he'll understand

chuck366's photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:44 PM

excellent idea Chuck
It'll show him how torn up you are over this and if he really does care he'll understand


Thanks I stumble across one periodically

ImWhtUWnt19's photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:45 PM
Yeaa...
Its juss with the cellphone thing it wasnt his fault I stayed on the phone him for hours wasting minutes and he insist on paying my bill now

Knotworthy's photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:49 PM

Yeaa...
And maybe you can help me widd this lil problem im having I got my cellphone bill and I went ove my miutes because of him and me talking all the time and my phones about to be shut off and I told him my phone might be shut off and he insisted on giving me money to help pay for the bill and I wont let him but he keeps insisting on it...
I dont want him to feel as though he has to fix my mistakes just for me stay widd him and make me happy

Personally I could never take money from someone, not even my friends and family, once you do you feel like you owe them.
Unless it is understood that it is a loan and you will pay it back, but then you MUST pay it back.

ImWhtUWnt19's photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:50 PM
I didnt ask him to pay the bill I really didnt

Knotworthy's photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:52 PM


excellent idea Chuck
It'll show him how torn up you are over this and if he really does care he'll understand


Thanks I stumble across one periodically
Not just a pretty face lol
Just so you know I'm straight Chuck, just kiddin around.
But I'm always willing to help someone out if I can

Knotworthy's photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:54 PM

I didnt ask him to pay the bill I really didnt

Is he older and maybe in a better position financially than you?

ImWhtUWnt19's photo
Tue 01/08/08 12:54 PM
Hes 24
And owns 2 cars so I guess you could say hes more financially set than me..

Knotworthy's photo
Tue 01/08/08 01:01 PM
I don't know, if you really need the money, take it for now but pay him back so you don't feel obligated, and you can keep your pride. Just my opinion, that's the way I am. Inevitably you will do what you want, just giving my 2 cents.

chuck366's photo
Tue 01/08/08 01:04 PM

Hes 24
And owns 2 cars so I guess you could say hes more financially set than me..


Love doesn t keep score, love is kind, love is not jealous, love is patient........and a bunch of other stuff I forgot

Knotworthy's photo
Tue 01/08/08 01:08 PM
Yeah! whatever Chuck is trying to say

Knotworthy's photo
Tue 01/08/08 01:43 PM
Best of luck to ya bud

buttons's photo
Tue 01/08/08 01:46 PM
if u truley love him then why does your profile say looking for a man for dating?laugh laugh grumble grumble