<------throws herself on her bed and sobs uncontrollably into her pillow!!!!

MARSHA! MARSHA! MARSHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!

its just the way the mind of some men work i guess. I believe that you should just take it easy and the right one will lumber along. Good luck to you and I

Most men are seeking women up to 15-20 years their junior.

The 30s are the 20s of yesterday and I don't think most men in their 20s are seeking a serious relationship. It has also been my experience that most men in their early to mid 30s are still not ready to enter a monogamous, committed relationship, either.

What it all comes down to is finding the right fit. When it is right, it will all fall in to place. You will see. It may take a while, but don't give up Faith.

Give it time...someone your age if that's what your looking for will come along and boom!...you won't be able to get rid of him
But.. on the other hand...being my age, middle forties, I'm in between what men are looking for in the age bracket...I'm either too old, or too young...those who are my age, want younger women or they have started their second or third families or if I am contacted, they are way too young, I have shoes older then them or too old for me... you know, retired for many years... and like one of the post before, it makes me sick at my stomach at their comments. I beleive most of us are on these site in hopes that the "one" will contact us and they will be just what we want... Good luck...just hang in there.

chris, grow a beard!

lonely...i have the same issue....sorry guys i have a cut off of 26 on my guys.....i would prefer 23 and younger...but sometimes those guys 23 to 26 are good looking and have their stuff together....

I could not agree more!!! I have been here less than two months and have found that it is better let go of the pursuit of a relationship and just try to make some cool friends.