As for me, Not yet, no lightning-strike match has shown up in real life just yet.
The apps and the world keep throwing interesting people my way, but that deep, effortless click we’re both holding out for (the kind where you just know without needing to overthink it) hasn’t quite landed. Still putting myself out there though—coffee dates, long walks, the occasional “what if” conversation—because I figure the right one shows up when you’re not forcing it, but also not hiding from it either.
How about you? Any promising sparks lately, or are you still in the “good stories, no keepers” phase? Spill if you want—I’m all ears (and zero judgment).

Nothing that looks genuine.

Let talk about that darling 🥰

Not exactly.
There are 2 women I've communicated in messages here with that sparked something in me that doesn't spark often, but I still have yet to talk to them on the phone so I don't even know yet if they are actually women or just really practiced scammers.

1 seems a little desperate but only contacts me at sporadic intervals.
I Suppose she could be having issues that need taking care of & I'm just another one.

The other seems very guarded & definitely not as interested as I am - which is a bad sign.
If she isn't interested then f/f/s woman, TELL ME SO.
She leaves hanging just enough to make me come back to the trough wanting another drink, then doesn't answer for long periods (well, seems like a long time to a guy who's trying to find the next love in his life).

In both instances the women DID say up-front that they aren't on Mingle2 very often, so I could be implying something that's only in my own head.
Color me not only green (pun intended), but as my late wife knocked into my head "Bob, sometimes you think too much".

Yes hon, let's talk about who's genuine and who's not.