Would marriage make you happy? I have often read that most people even secretly regret getting married. Living the rest of your life with the one person must be very boring! It seems to me that people are much happier in relationships.

It would depend on the Man for me.
Many couples are very happy married.

Personal choices some just like shaking up or
fornicating with a number of partners.
Some have low to no morals.

That is a great question Victory I think like love , we are programmed to imagine married life as sublime happy perfection … Often the reality is very different. Life happens with all its ups and downs . Priorities, needs and desires change . When needs are unmet self actualisation is limited and happiness is unlikely . Marriage is not static and like any connection can become mundane and fragile . I think it is important to make a commitment to prioritise the connection (whether marriage or a relationship ) and remain passionate and interested in each other .

lets put it this way .... I tried it once and quite liked it for about 15 years ....Now at the stage where I am ready to try again, but I am afraid I wont last as long...
but I am still a risk taker and I am sure at least I will be happier .....

Remember this is a two way street, your partner has a say in this, maybe their goal is marriage what would you do then, deny them their goal. I believe what I have read many times, those couples who become very close friends first by a long courtship, at least a year or so, are the ones that have a better chance of a successful marriage. It's certainly not something you rush in to, when you both know each other very well I think you both know when to marry, and those that play together stay together. Good luck in your search.

^^^^ Wisdom at peak.. Well said

Love is long term and forever thing so if not ready don't go for it