Topic: Is it ok to date her friend?
RealtyLady's photo
Wed 01/02/08 05:48 PM

see if you can get them in a 3some...........


How original!!noway laugh

lawson2765's photo
Wed 01/02/08 05:48 PM
i dont know man you gotta look at it like this friends always stick togther

gowings2007's photo
Wed 01/02/08 05:49 PM
Gotta agree with funguy, this is screaming DRAMA!

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Wed 01/02/08 05:50 PM
Nope, not a good idea, move on. It could ruin their friendship and cause a lot of grief for all three of you, it's not worth it.

corporatemike_85's photo
Wed 01/02/08 05:50 PM
Yeh ur right either way i gotta seriously weigh my options, i could either lose a friend and gain someone really special or lose 2 friends

Dragoness's photo
Wed 01/02/08 05:51 PM


well yeah she says its cool but you can tell by the look in her eyes its not. But i really like the other girl...


Just do it.


I disagree with just do it. If you know it is not okay with the other friend then leave her alone. There are plenty of females in the world choose one who is not in the clique. Better for all involved that way.

catchme_ifucan's photo
Wed 01/02/08 05:58 PM
devil devil
yea yea, go for the threesome!
gahead you like it!!!
devil glasses

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Wed 01/02/08 06:01 PM
If it was me, I would date the friend. The first girl had a shot, it's over, blah blah blah, end of story. If you like the friend, take a chance, who knows?

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Wed 01/02/08 06:04 PM
Fix up the former gf with a guy you know so she will not feel alone, then you can go for the other one.

corporatemike_85's photo
Wed 01/02/08 06:06 PM
hey thats a great idea allsmiles a good buddy of mine actually liked the first good to begin with lol. i wonder if he is still interested in her...

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Wed 01/02/08 06:25 PM

see if you can get them in a 3some...........


hahaha always with a great comment

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Wed 01/02/08 06:29 PM

Yeh ur right either way i gotta seriously weigh my options, i could either lose a friend and gain someone really special or lose 2 friends


Yes that is a tough call; think about the first girls feelings, think about how much that rejection from you must hurt. Then try sitting down with her and really talking about her feelings. Put yourself in her shoes, that shyt would really hurt.

nurjoyce's photo
Wed 01/02/08 06:30 PM
my opinion- do not do it
you will be coming between friends and someone will
be hurt when it is over

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Wed 01/02/08 06:33 PM

my opinion- do not do it
you will be coming between friends and someone will
be hurt when it is over


I really agree

seahawks's photo
Wed 01/02/08 06:33 PM

my opinion- do not do it
you will be coming between friends and someone will
be hurt when it is over
well said nurjoyce.!!

trueokie2's photo
Wed 01/02/08 06:34 PM
Should ask the other girl if it's ok with her. It would be terrible to break up a friendship.
flowerforyou

Kravynn's photo
Wed 01/02/08 06:39 PM
I have a die hard tendancy to look at things from all angles. I read through the posts briefly and noticed everyone is answering how true should handle it. If Im best friends with a girl and her ex asks me out...Im not going there unless its been laid out clear with my friend that its okay. if shes willing to go behind her friends back to date you, what will she do behind your back. Or if shes dating you and saying, "screw her its my life"...again what happens when your turn comes, will she turn on you too?

Im just hitting it from all corners.

wanttachat's photo
Wed 01/02/08 06:40 PM
just had to see how guys responded to this laugh laugh

Do NOT repeat DO NOT date her total desaster waiting to happen




adj4u's photo
Wed 01/02/08 06:44 PM
can she date your best friend

maybe fix them up on a double date

with you and her friend

just a thought

but hey what do i know

nurjoyce's photo
Wed 01/02/08 06:48 PM

can she date your best friend

maybe fix them up on a double date

with you and her friend

just a thought

but hey what do i know


no, then you get someone else involved and it that relationship fails you had a part in it and your brst friend might get upset