same thing girls freak out when guys say it
cmon hun do learn to not generalize

screw saying a few extra pounds...I'll be blunt, if ya ask...

I'm down for giving height and weight...let's just get it out of the way, ya know...

WELL FOR ME I LIKE A LITTLE MEAT WITH MY TATTER'S,SO DON'T LET THESE LITTLE MEN WANT TO BE'S GET YOU DOWN,I SAW YOUR PICTURE YOU LOOK FINE TO ME.

Ya most women aren't looking for chubby/ few extra pounds either. It is sad

i met this girl on yahoo some years back, only had a picture of her face, and yeah she had a cute face and all. she said and if i remember right "i'm not fat, i just got a couple extra pounds i still need to loose" or something to that effect. ok i can live with that, i like a girl with some shape to her, it's all good. i get to the bar have a beer, she shows up and i kid you not, she was pushing 450#. i swear to you, no joking at all, she seriously turned side ways to go threw a door. now that is blatently lying about your appearance there. i'd bet that happens to alot of people aswell. i'm sure not everybody was expecting me to show up looking the way i do either.


but that just goes to show you how some people see themselves versus how others see you.

okay i'm not generalizing... i'm talking about personal experiences... i'm not saying girls don't do the same thing!! I'm saying guys did it to me... I'm not a male so girls do it to me... get it ...GOOD!

hey shanan.i agree.
you have a very beautiful face indeed,and you'll find that most men actually prefer thier women to be more or less curvasious then skinny.but a lot of men wont admit to it because of peer pressure.

flesh is an extreme turn on for men..now i have seen your pics and truth be told you do have beautiful curves,you are who i would call full figured.
and there are a hell of a lot more women that i would consider to be fat,way before i put you on this list.
you are a very beutiful woman shanan..

of course being 40 years old and living very far away from you this leaves me out of the running but im sure that you are bound to make a connection very soon,and this man will be envied by many.

take care..
kol..

I know im new here but i will put my 2 cents in anyway, it shouldnt matter anyones weight. Somone shouldnt be bringing that type of question up in a conversation with you....you can just weed out the bad ones when that question comes, you should be happy the idiot stops talking to ya.

I have pictures of me where you can tell i'm not 450 lbs!!!

didn't queen say, "the bigger the cushion, the sweeter the pushin"?

Thank you my dear!

We should do away with the few extra lbs category. From now on everyone will be posting their BMI instead.

I am about 5' 11" weighing 182 lbs. My BMI is right at 25.4.......which is slightly over weight.....and I will honestly admit I have a little tummy chub to get rid of.

Your very welcome....and hello to all from the newbee

LMAO

I LOVE MY CHUB

Peachie i pretty much you!! Let's be friends!! Lol.

That's true, be happy the idiots stopped bothering you! They should get a general idea of your profile and if they don't like it they can just find something else!!!

girl, I been down this road too many times...I used to weigh 400lbs...damn near killed me...now I'm 155 and happier than hell to be alive...screw those who think i'm not good enough for them...as far as i'm concerned I accomplished was few will ever even dare to...I SAVED MY OWN LIFE...I'm lucky to be here and happy for what I have...

Seriously damn girl! great job!!! That's a lot of weight to lose!!! *applause*

thanks hun