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Topic: Where's the 50 or older community?
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Mon 02/19/24 06:04 PM
I am 60 and single, where are all the grown and sexy women at.

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Tue 12/17/24 02:26 PM

:joy:

Age is supposedly just a number!

That is what Iโ€™m always told when a younger guy texted me! You would have to agree if you donโ€™t feel the age you are but younger!

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Thu 08/28/25 02:26 AM
South jersey

SparklingCrystal ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’Ž's photo
Thu 08/28/25 02:46 AM
Having a group for "50 and older" is really daft.

I'm on a dating site for 50+ so same thing.
Average age there? 70 and older!
What the hell am I going to do with such an old geezer??

It's ridiculous to put everyone from 50 with the pensioners. It's too vast an age group with way too many differences in interest, mobility, mental acuity and so on.

Younger people get smaller age groups, but after 50 it's like "We don't know what to do with these leftovers. Chuck 'em all on one pile!"

It's the same with speed dating. You're thrown in with everyone that above 50. Chances are you get old grandpa's with walkers turn up.

Really stupid as there's a large group of singles in their 50s.

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Thu 08/28/25 02:11 PM
Edited by PeterB on Thu 08/28/25 02:15 PM

Having a group for "50 and older" is really daft.


I agree.


I'm on a dating site for 50+ so same thing.
Average age there? 70 and older!
What the hell am I going to do with such an old geezer??


As an old geezer, I might say: what am I going to do with such a child?


It's ridiculous to put everyone from 50 with the pensioners. It's too vast an age group with way too many differences in interest, mobility, mental acuity and so on.


I agree completely.


Younger people get smaller age groups, but after 50 it's like "We don't know what to do with these leftovers. Chuck 'em all on one pile!"


A practical solution might be to split the 50+ group into, say, 50 to 65 and 65+.


It's the same with speed dating. You're thrown in with everyone that above 50. Chances are you get old grandpas with walkers turn up.


I am an old grandpa, but I don't need a walker at this time. As Yogi Berra is alleged to have said, it's hard to predict, especially the future.


Really stupid as there's a large group of singles in their 50s.


Again, I agree.

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Thu 03/12/26 10:11 PM
Am here 50+ and searching.

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Fri 03/13/26 09:33 AM
The real problem isn't the chronological age but the physical and mental age. This is particularly a problem at the very younger and older ages. That is an advantage of speed dating or social mingle groups. It only takes a couple of minutes to divide people based on physical health and mental attitude. In the over 50 group, when I hear someone say "I'm too old for that", it means I don't want to get acquainted with them. Their attitude sucks!!

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Fri 03/13/26 06:41 PM
I can't find anyone of any age that is real

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Wed 03/18/26 05:53 AM

In todayโ€™s world, I think everyone is way more reserved than they use to be. Just by looking at someone else can be the cause for them to melt down. Women want Men to be as they were in the past but society has legislated it not to be possible in a comfortable and respectful manner. Men want Women to be approachable but never know what mine field this particular woman is playing on.

Just my two cents worth. Of course that is probably why we are on a damn website instead of enjoying each others company.

Hope you all enjoy the evening.
Be blessed

I strongly recommend educating yourself on the subject matter as with that mindset you aren't going to find love as it's simply incorrect.
All the info you require is available on the net for free, but most cannot be bothered to educate themselves. Which is weird as they do want love, find that very important, but not important enough to learn how to go about it.
I recommend Jake Woodard. You can find him on FB, YouTube, Insta.
Check him out. You really will learn something valuable.

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Wed 03/18/26 09:36 AM
Edited by oldkid46 on Wed 03/18/26 09:39 AM


In todayโ€™s world, I think everyone is way more reserved than they use to be. Just by looking at someone else can be the cause for them to melt down. Women want Men to be as they were in the past but society has legislated it not to be possible in a comfortable and respectful manner. Men want Women to be approachable but never know what mine field this particular woman is playing on.

Just my two cents worth. Of course that is probably why we are on a damn website instead of enjoying each others company.

Hope you all enjoy the evening.
Be blessed

I strongly recommend educating yourself on the subject matter as with that mindset you aren't going to find love as it's simply incorrect.
All the info you require is available on the net for free, but most cannot be bothered to educate themselves. Which is weird as they do want love, find that very important, but not important enough to learn how to go about it.
I recommend Jake Woodard. You can find him on FB, YouTube, Insta.
Check him out. You really will learn something valuable.

Maybe in the wrong thread????

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Wed 03/18/26 09:48 AM
Many of you seem to be very hung up on age. I guess if you are looking for a wife or husband, it makes a difference in regard to longevity.

Personally, I don't care if she is 35 or 75 as long as she is in reasonable shape and we can enjoy some shared activities. It is all about physical condition and attitude!!

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