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People choose to accept behaviours from others. Placing responsibility for you in anothers hands, is to bind them, and obligate them. That is called being in a victim stage. You own you, you make your decisions. When you have expectations of others, and they don't meet those expectations, one blames the other person as being at fault and causing harm. We as humans need to stop pointing the finger at others, and taking responsibility for ourselves, there would be a whole lot less of the need for anti depressants, and therapy, and woe is me stuff going on, if we stopped trying to lay blame externally. Sometimes in life, sh*t happens, and yes it can have adverse affects, however, get up, and get on with it, learn from it, and do the work on yourself... there is a whole lot less chance of attracting broken people, if you aren't broken yourself. amen... it's like training dogs or kids...if you let them get away with bad behaviour...they will always have bad behaviour... either deal with it, accept it, or move on...those are the only 2 choices you have in life.... |
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Each to their own conscience. Like forgiveness is well that we be non frustratious, so is being appreciable in deed well with you.
Bless you. |
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Be sure the person is worth your love before you hand it over to them on a silver platter. Protect your heart first and always. Love takess time to develop and keep your heart reigned in til you are sure its the real deal.
Some guys will say anything to get what they want and walk away with out a backward glance. Your in charge sister!!!!! |
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Be sure the person is worth your love before you hand it over to them on a silver platter. Protect your heart first and always. Love takess time to develop and keep your heart reigned in til you are sure its the real deal. Some guys will say anything to get what they want and walk away with out a backward glance. Your in charge sister!!!!! Wow sister, you shocked me in my silence. ----- Do it right, maybe? But we must comprehend worth before hand. ------------- More lovely comments came as I thought myself busy. |
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ha ha..
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If you ain't lovin'...you ain't livin'
-Geo Strait |
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Going out of the box a little on this one. I never understood this when women would say, "Why am I always getting hurt" You can't get hurt if you don't let it happen. I think sometimes men or even women take insecurity as a sign to do whatever they want. So the secret is to not be insecure....I know easier said then done. But you have to know in your heart you are worth being treated like a queen...and even sometimes if you don't feel that way or insecurity creeps in.....fake it....cuz know one can hurt you if you don't let them.
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Step up, be a women empowered as opposed to overpowered, and quit being a doormat. Also, if you were doing everything right, you wouldn't be here. Takes two to tango. I think people need to quit doing the "poor me, why me" dance and start doing some personal inventory. A lot of times it is one person who pushes the relationship past the point of no return, but there are problems on both sides that initiate it. Either people change who they first presented themselves to be or they become clingy, posessive, etc. Take responsibility and look at it from all sides. Maybe you need to either higher or lower your standards. Crying about it isn't doing you any good.
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Edited by
feralcatlady
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Thu 01/03/08 10:47 AM
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I like lily.....she has sound advice......she is my kind of chica....
Women don't even realize most of the time how powerful they are. |
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From past experience, I would have to say the answer is NO agree |
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love hurts
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love hurts nah lust does |
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I'm the same way. Every guy I have been with has either used me, cheated one me, blown me off or a combination of the three. I have wondered in the past if it was something I did. In the end, maybe its just the fact that we are too nice...that is the conclusion that I came to. I'm not gonna let someone take advantage of the fact that I am so nice anymore, because in the end, I end up just getting hurt all over again.
Just remember, as hard as it seems, there is always someone else out there...and maybe, just MAYBE this one won't be a complete ass :) |
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that retarded. So If say your whole family dies in a tragic accident then you DECIDED to feel bad about it?? Come on we can do better...Love hurts and all that but its also the most wonderfull thing on this God given Earth..so ***** about the bad times and cherish the good ones
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Evey guy i have ever dated just hurts me in every possible way. And sometimes i think it is me, but i do everything right. I have ahard time getting to know people or guys becuz i am afriad it is going to happen agian. DO you think i will find that guy that will not do that? Yes you will, hang in there |
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...........i will write a blues song for you..........
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