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Evey guy i have ever dated just hurts me in every possible way. And sometimes i think it is me, but i do everything right. I have ahard time getting to know people or guys becuz i am afriad it is going to happen agian. DO you think i will find that guy that will not do that? Honey, as sad as it seems, I am going to have to say NO also. I was just burned really bad by a guy, and yes he is on this website reeling in more females......I wish there was something I could do to warn women about him. I am sure there are some nice guys out there. I just don't believe that they are in the South. |
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and thats where i live in the south so ladies start e mailing ...
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Just one other thing I would like to get in here ! as many guys get hurt as females But we don't tend to go on about it so much....Not the male thing to do Actually I take penalties like a brick. Thank you very much. |
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I don't think any of us should give up unless we are content being alone. Until then there are always friends to make. :)
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Just one other thing I would like to get in here ! as many guys get hurt as females But we don't tend to go on about it so much....Not the male thing to do Yea I could tell you a thing or 2 or 3 about this!! |
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Getting hurt is part of the process,If we never get hurt we never grow.Each instance makes us stronger and hopefully wiser.I had a friend that was asking the same question.Look back on each situation and see what red flags jump up.They are probably are related.Read the book"when women love to much".
Rick |
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Yeah, Being hurt sucks. But...If you were to go out with me, I'd love you for a long time, then hurt you again, just to follow up with the phrase "I love you." It works for everyone else...
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Thats so sad
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I think the same thing happens to me a lot, and I also think I realize I have been attracted to the wrong types. Re-evaluate what you really want in a relationship, don't be in a rush, don't get too excited and let your imagination of what you want from someone fog what they really are. Then if it doesn't work out, it's not a disappointment so much as just the wrong one for you.
Good luck and hang in there! |
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Evey guy i have ever dated just hurts me in every possible way. And sometimes i think it is me, but i do everything right. I have ahard time getting to know people or guys becuz i am afriad it is going to happen agian. DO you think i will find that guy that will not do that? Well, if every guy you ever dated has hurt you, maybe it's because you have let them. Be more careful, don't give much of yourself, unless they earn it. I'm not saying it's your fault if you get hurt, but maybe you can make some changes so that you don't get hurt. Just don't cheapen yourself, only give what is earned. Oh yeah, and don't make the next guy pay for what the last guy did, try to learn from the experiences. |
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i feel you... i don't know why? but usually when you give yourself 100 percent to the other persn always you get hurt sometimes i think that doesn't worth it but how can we give up ourself to find the happyness and denied that there is good girls(in my case)or guy that will appreciate you for who you are....txt me...
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I agree with the chick up there it does get worse and then bam the one strolls in your life, you have to just let it happen and not try so hard or be to giving at first, tell him exactly what you want right off the bat so their won't be any surprises later on in the relationship. Trust me I was there at one point he'll come around before you even know it!!!
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Evey guy i have ever dated just hurts me in every possible way. And sometimes i think it is me, but i do everything right. I have ahard time getting to know people or guys becuz i am afriad it is going to happen agian. DO you think i will find that guy that will not do that? Well, if every guy you ever dated has hurt you, maybe it's because you have let them. Be more careful, don't give much of yourself, unless they earn it. I'm not saying it's your fault if you get hurt, but maybe you can make some changes so that you don't get hurt. Just don't cheapen yourself, only give what is earned. Oh yeah, and don't make the next guy pay for what the last guy did, try to learn from the experiences. Well yes, people have faults. This just comes to show how necessary it is to be ideal. But is there any significant care? This must be appropriate. |
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You will stop getting hurt when you decide to stop getting hurt, only you control your emotions...no one can MAKE you feel anything.... you are the one who DECIDED how to feel.....
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Unfortunately, its is the truth of life that finding a partner is as much up to chance as it is up to a set of criteria that we use to select a mate. I think that if you examine what you need in a man and look for that and put yourself keep looking for those things that you need (not the same as want) then you will do much better.
Easier said than done right? I agree. If its any consolation all people have the same dilema its how you tackle it that makes all the difference. 
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People choose to accept behaviours from others.
Placing responsibility for you in anothers hands, is to bind them, and obligate them. That is called being in a victim stage. You own you, you make your decisions. When you have expectations of others, and they don't meet those expectations, one blames the other person as being at fault and causing harm. We as humans need to stop pointing the finger at others, and taking responsibility for ourselves, there would be a whole lot less of the need for anti depressants, and therapy, and woe is me stuff going on, if we stopped trying to lay blame externally. Sometimes in life, sh*t happens, and yes it can have adverse affects, however, get up, and get on with it, learn from it, and do the work on yourself... there is a whole lot less chance of attracting broken people, if you aren't broken yourself. |
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Evey guy i have ever dated just hurts me in every possible way. And sometimes i think it is me, but i do everything right. I have ahard time getting to know people or guys becuz i am afriad it is going to happen agian. DO you think i will find that guy that will not do that? Honey, as sad as it seems, I am going to have to say NO also. I was just burned really bad by a guy, and yes he is on this website reeling in more females......I wish there was something I could do to warn women about him. I am sure there are some nice guys out there. I just don't believe that they are in the South. |
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People choose to accept behaviours from others. Placing responsibility for you in anothers hands, is to bind them, and obligate them. That is called being in a victim stage. You own you, you make your decisions. When you have expectations of others, and they don't meet those expectations, one blames the other person as being at fault and causing harm. We as humans need to stop pointing the finger at others, and taking responsibility for ourselves, there would be a whole lot less of the need for anti depressants, and therapy, and woe is me stuff going on, if we stopped trying to lay blame externally. Sometimes in life, sh*t happens, and yes it can have adverse affects, however, get up, and get on with it, learn from it, and do the work on yourself... there is a whole lot less chance of attracting broken people, if you aren't broken yourself.  R-E-S-P-E-C-T So my question is, who can ride the bull? |
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People choose to accept behaviours from others. Placing responsibility for you in anothers hands, is to bind them, and obligate them. That is called being in a victim stage. You own you, you make your decisions. When you have expectations of others, and they don't meet those expectations, one blames the other person as being at fault and causing harm. We as humans need to stop pointing the finger at others, and taking responsibility for ourselves, there would be a whole lot less of the need for anti depressants, and therapy, and woe is me stuff going on, if we stopped trying to lay blame externally. Sometimes in life, sh*t happens, and yes it can have adverse affects, however, get up, and get on with it, learn from it, and do the work on yourself... there is a whole lot less chance of attracting broken people, if you aren't broken yourself. All I can say is WOW!!! Well spoken. |
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Evey guy i have ever dated just hurts me in every possible way. And sometimes i think it is me, but i do everything right. I have ahard time getting to know people or guys becuz i am afriad it is going to happen agian. DO you think i will find that guy that will not do that? 
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