Topic: i've known this girl
Luthin0r's photo
Wed 01/02/08 11:50 AM
for 3 years now, and we've kinda been off-and-on ever since we met. i really like her, but she keeps changing her mind on whether she likes me or not. should i move on or keep working on her?

no photo
Wed 01/02/08 11:51 AM
NEXT!!!

Nickinolosers's photo
Wed 01/02/08 11:52 AM
Move or Lose

laughsandgiggles's photo
Wed 01/02/08 11:57 AM
You need to let her go and move on- it sounds to me like she is just stringing you along until she finds someone she thinks is better.

You look out for you- lose her and go on with your life. You seem like a really nice man, so give someone else a chance and let yourself find some happiness tooflowerforyou

Goofball73's photo
Wed 01/02/08 11:58 AM
You make sure you have all your belongings....and then you kick her ass to the curb!:wink:

FaithfulOne78's photo
Wed 01/02/08 11:59 AM
On to the next one....no way should you wait that long for someone to make up their mind..especially 3 years!!! If she's that indecisive about you...then she isn't the one for you.

Suzanne20's photo
Wed 01/02/08 12:00 PM
time to move on

malibu23wi's photo
Wed 01/02/08 12:12 PM
I hate to say it..but i agree with everyone else...time to move on...she's just using you as a back up plan for when she's not with someone else...
no one deserves that in their life...do yourself a favor and move on...find someone who knows she wants to be with you and won't take you for granted like this one seems to do.

good luck ((hugs))

no photo
Wed 01/02/08 12:13 PM
Move ondrinker

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Wed 01/02/08 12:54 PM
I will help you decide. You won't want to go back. JK

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Wed 01/02/08 01:10 PM
3 years is long enough to decide if she wants you. move on to better things...

EveningKiss's photo
Wed 01/02/08 11:05 PM
Hate to say it but she's probably using you as a safty net that way if things go wrong with someone else she will still have you there to pick up thepeices. this is something ive been going through for the past 10 years with my best friend. Remember if you can't have them as lovers or partners you can always have them as a friend and see what developes. You may be suprised in the long run.

EveningKiss's photo
Wed 01/02/08 11:05 PM
Edited by EveningKiss on Wed 01/02/08 11:05 PM
double post

gammalight6000's photo
Thu 01/03/08 10:55 AM
to the curb i tell ya, the worst kind of chicks..they lead you on for nothing....

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Thu 01/03/08 11:10 AM
I'm willing to bet you're going to run into this same situation over and over again if you don't learn from it before/after you move on, as everyone here is suggesting to do.

WhiteSox0507's photo
Thu 01/03/08 11:16 AM

I'm willing to bet you're going to run into this same situation over and over again if you don't learn from it before/after you move on, as everyone here is suggesting to do.


You know Chief, I've been debating with myself about posting the defintion of one-itis and its "cure". But we already catch enough crap in the PUA secrets revealed and I can only imagine what kind of posts we'd see after that. However, if anyone is interested, I'll be glad to share it with you laugh .

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Thu 01/03/08 11:20 AM


I'm willing to bet you're going to run into this same situation over and over again if you don't learn from it before/after you move on, as everyone here is suggesting to do.


You know Chief, I've been debating with myself about posting the defintion of one-itis and its "cure". But we already catch enough crap in the PUA secrets revealed and I can only imagine what kind of posts we'd see after that. However, if anyone is interested, I'll be glad to share it with you laugh .

lol

i actually didnt think about this issue from the oneitis perspective til you mentioned it

i was thinking this was more about some sticking points Luthin0r may have that cause the ladies to become confused as to how they feel toward him

but thats a good point

Luthin0r, you've got oneitis. Solution? Diversify your portfolio. You can message WhiteSox0507 lol

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 01/03/08 04:46 PM

for 3 years now, and we've kinda been off-and-on ever since we met. i really like her, but she keeps changing her mind on whether she likes me or not. should i move on or keep working on her?


"NEXT"

LauraLynn08's photo
Thu 01/03/08 08:55 PM
Why ask, you are not going to leave her, if you would, you wouldn't have to ask that question.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 01/03/08 09:51 PM
smokin Honestly,the best thing to do would be to move on.smokin