Topic: WOULD U DATE A CELIBATE?
Runpenzo's photo
Wed 01/02/08 02:18 AM





dude...i cant even remember what it was like to be a virgin

laugh laugh laugh laugh
I still am...sad
Aw! I think I would die.
Yeah it sucks


It does to an extent. If that's all you focus on, it's depressing, lol.
well I really dont have time for sex so I don't think about it much

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Wed 01/02/08 02:38 AM
I am so I would.

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Wed 01/02/08 02:42 AM
Honestly, it doesn't cross my mind too. But thanks to all for commenting. Have a great 2day.

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Wed 01/02/08 01:51 PM
nope i wouldnt

CaRisLOVE's photo
Wed 01/02/08 01:59 PM
hell no lol
not even a vegetarian

stevenpwis's photo
Wed 01/02/08 02:44 PM
the real question is, would you date an asexual? I did, that's worse than a celibate

stevex86's photo
Wed 01/02/08 02:49 PM
Depends on what we were celebating

JayOhEeh's photo
Wed 01/02/08 02:51 PM
Pssh. You can't even date asexuals. Because often times, they want nothing more than friendship and strictly friendship from other people.

But for the record, I would date a celibate. I'm celebate in a no-one-night-stands kind of way. So it really wouldn't bother me.

Oshana's photo
Wed 01/02/08 02:52 PM
As I have been involuntarily celibate for 8 years now, I'd have to say I would. Don't get me wrong, I love sex. It's just that it sometimes gets in the way of a better relationship. I want to know what is in your heart, mind and soul much more than I want to know what is in your pants. blushing embarassed laugh

JayOhEeh's photo
Wed 01/02/08 02:55 PM

As I have been involuntarily celibate for 8 years now, I'd have to say I would. Don't get me wrong, I love sex. It's just that it sometimes gets in the way of a better relationship. I want to know what is in your heart, mind and soul much more than I want to know what is in your pants. blushing embarassed laugh


Aye.

stevenpwis's photo
Wed 01/02/08 02:58 PM

Pssh. You can't even date asexuals. Because often times, they want nothing more than friendship and strictly friendship from other people.




it's not true, she thought she wanted a relationship, we dated for a month and a half, she never actually told me she was asexual until she dumped me. We never kissed in the whole time we were together. We cuddled, held hands.

JayOhEeh's photo
Wed 01/02/08 03:00 PM


Pssh. You can't even date asexuals. Because often times, they want nothing more than friendship and strictly friendship from other people.




it's not true, she thought she wanted a relationship, we dated for a month and a half, she never actually told me she was asexual until she dumped me. We never kissed in the whole time we were together. We cuddled, held hands.


Doesn't sound like a true asexual to me, to be honest. Any that I've known were totally unwilling to committ to any kind of romance.

Shaden's photo
Wed 01/02/08 03:00 PM
Edited by Shaden on Wed 01/02/08 03:01 PM
I would until marriage, but if they had no sexual desire for life no!

stevenpwis's photo
Wed 01/02/08 03:12 PM
Edited by stevenpwis on Wed 01/02/08 03:12 PM



Pssh. You can't even date asexuals. Because often times, they want nothing more than friendship and strictly friendship from other people.




it's not true, she thought she wanted a relationship, we dated for a month and a half, she never actually told me she was asexual until she dumped me. We never kissed in the whole time we were together. We cuddled, held hands.


Doesn't sound like a true asexual to me, to be honest. Any that I've known were totally unwilling to committ to any kind of romance.


She said she wanted to see if she could change. I was basically used as an experiment, and pretty much got my heart broken.

BlueskyJ's photo
Wed 01/02/08 03:15 PM
Well I might date someone who is celibate, but if there was Chemistry....I would try to break them of that nasty habit....:tongue:

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 01/02/08 03:17 PM
smokin I could be friends with a celibate. smokin

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Wed 01/02/08 03:47 PM
ABSOLUTELY NOT DATE A CELIBATE MAN EVER!!! JOIN THE PRIESTHOOD & BE A MONK, DUDE!!!

scttrbrain's photo
Wed 01/02/08 05:22 PM
Yes I would. Being I am also celibate. as was mentioned before " in a not one night stand sort of way". I would if they were not planning to stay that way forever. Unless there was a physical reason why; then I still would. One doesn't have to have sex to love someone.

Just because someone is celibate does not mean they do not like sex. It means they are picky and want more than just sex. I am very sexual. Just not easy.

Kat

EveningKiss's photo
Wed 01/02/08 07:49 PM
I lived with a guy for a while. Shared the same bed for 6 months and were celibate the whole time... THEN he ditched me for a girl whom made Ally McBeal look big.

ephraimglass's photo
Wed 01/02/08 10:35 PM
Edited by ephraimglass on Wed 01/02/08 10:36 PM
As a celibate myself, I would obviously date another celibate. I've heard mention a variety of relatively weak arguments in favour of premarital sex and/or against premarital abstinence that I'd like to address.
"Celibates just want to be friends. Celibates have weak libidos."
This is absolutely untrue. I have chosen to be celibate until I am married, but it is a decision I have made based on morality and faith. I can say with relative confidence that my libido is as strong as any other 26-year-old man's.

"Sex is good for you. It releases endorphins and relieves tension. Anyway, you need to confirm that you're sexually compatible with your partner before committing, right?
These are excellent arguments from a purely pragmatic view, but they ignore the moral arguments that those of us who have chosen celibacy employ. I am not here to push a moral agenda on anybody else, but it bears repeating that I've chosen to obey a stricter moral code. If I may make an exaggerated analogy, nobody would condone murder if it were found to be a good way of relieving tension. I do not debate the pragmatic value of frequent and vigorous sex among consenting adults. I believe, however, that there are additional factors that require me to abstain until I am married, nonetheless.