Topic: Why do...
MissKris87's photo
Tue 01/01/08 10:02 PM
people who are married join a dating site? I realize the name of the site is JustSayHi but still it's considered a dating site.

NightOwlvg's photo
Tue 01/01/08 10:03 PM
people who are married join a dating site?
Rampant stupidity.

Unless of course they are not technically divorced and not legally separated, but are going through it...

no photo
Tue 01/01/08 10:04 PM
because they are freaks...........

JaceKnows's photo
Tue 01/01/08 10:04 PM
Because some people like pancakes for breakfast... and every morning for the last 5 years, they've been having scrambled eggs. And finally one day they snap, and whip up some pancakes. Breakfast. It's the most important meal of the day!

JayOhEeh's photo
Tue 01/01/08 10:04 PM
Good question. That seems to be common on tons of dating things. And I ask, are you trying to get out of what relationship you're in? Nope! I'm extremely happy with my boyfriend/husband! Oh. Well uh. You're taking up space and time in my search for the woman of my dreams. =P

no photo
Tue 01/01/08 10:04 PM
Happens I guessohwell

Jess642's photo
Tue 01/01/08 10:04 PM
Some posters met here, others find they can create some great online friendships....

Some of the married people met here, fell in love and married, and are invited to stay to chat with their online friends.

Nothing sinister in that, and it may be a dating site, for some, but the forums are a little more for others.

MissKris87's photo
Tue 01/01/08 10:05 PM

Because some people like pancakes for breakfast... and every morning for the last 5 years, they've been having scrambled eggs. And finally one day they snap, and whip up some pancakes. Breakfast. It's the most important meal of the day!

Nice theory! laugh

MissKris87's photo
Tue 01/01/08 10:05 PM

Good question. That seems to be common on tons of dating things. And I ask, are you trying to get out of what relationship you're in? Nope! I'm extremely happy with my boyfriend/husband! Oh. Well uh. You're taking up space and time in my search for the woman of my dreams. =P

I agree!

Jess642's photo
Tue 01/01/08 10:07 PM

Good question. That seems to be common on tons of dating things. And I ask, are you trying to get out of what relationship you're in? Nope! I'm extremely happy with my boyfriend/husband! Oh. Well uh. You're taking up space and time in my search for the woman of my dreams. =P


I wouldn't be in your search parameters anyway, nor would a married woman, unless you were searching for one, so it makes no difference.

You guys have been on this site 30 seconds, and you seem to have it all figured out...











NOT... don't like the way the site is managed???

See yah! mad mad



no photo
Tue 01/01/08 10:07 PM

people who are married join a dating site? I realize the name of the site is JustSayHi but still it's considered a dating site.


We have some married people who made friends here and want to stick around for them.

We have others who are up to no good.

I mean, it's just like married people in real life. One of my best friends is an ex-gf who is now married with 2 kids, and there is NO WAY I would ever try to start anything up with her again....!

Not everybody who is married is out looking for extracurricular activity. But it does happen sometimes....

NightOwlvg's photo
Tue 01/01/08 10:08 PM
See yah! mad mad
Angry much?

Impala13's photo
Tue 01/01/08 10:09 PM
ya i think its wrong if your on here and your married and if you want out of your relationship then get outof it. because its not right for one thing.

MissKris87's photo
Tue 01/01/08 10:10 PM

ya i think its wrong if your on here and your married and if you want out of your relationship then get outof it. because its not right for one thing.

Thank you :smile:

JayOhEeh's photo
Tue 01/01/08 10:12 PM
Jess.

Take a chill pill, I mean really. You know, oddly enough, there are other dating sites out there (ZOMG RLY?!) and some don't have parameters that you can set... for instance, Facebook has an application called "Are You Interested?" and you would THINK (I don't know if you do that, but give it a shot if you'd like) that if you're in a relationship, you wouldn't need to show your interest publicly in other people, or desire someone to be interested in you. All those people really do is get my hopes up when it says they're interested in me... and... they're happily taken? Would that confuse anyone else?

NightOwlvg's photo
Tue 01/01/08 10:35 PM
Edited by NightOwlvg on Tue 01/01/08 10:35 PM
Would that confuse anyone else?
That particular application frustrates me constantly! I even got a communication from a "match" only to find out she is happily committed to someone!

Damm|t!

urgide's photo
Wed 01/02/08 01:44 AM
because they are married and dating? huh

Jess642's photo
Wed 01/02/08 01:56 AM
Edited by Jess642 on Wed 01/02/08 02:15 AM

Jess.

Take a chill pill, I mean really. You know, oddly enough, there are other dating sites out there (ZOMG RLY?!) and some don't have parameters that you can set... for instance, Facebook has an application called "Are You Interested?" and you would THINK (I don't know if you do that, but give it a shot if you'd like) that if you're in a relationship, you wouldn't need to show your interest publicly in other people, or desire someone to be interested in you. All those people really do is get my hopes up when it says they're interested in me... and... they're happily taken? Would that confuse anyone else?


No chill pill required, this thread is about married people being on a dating site.... and all these negative posts are about THIS site, which most of the naysayers have been on for all of a week max.

THIS site, is for all, no segregation, and some of my closest online friends are happily married, some met through THIS site, others joined, with their partners blessings.

You dont want to meet married people, keep right on moving to the next profile... don't judge what you have no idea about.....again THIS site.

Southernman21's photo
Thu 01/03/08 01:34 PM
Or their Wives aren't giving it up! grumble

MicheleNC's photo
Thu 01/03/08 02:13 PM
Okay, you have issues with married people on the site? Have said married people emailed you looking for dates?

Right now, I am in a 'relationship' with someone I did not meet on this site. Since I am involved, I can no longer visit with my friends on the site and watch the mayhem in the forums (or in this case...add to it?).

Relax everyone. There is the great feature of being able to block user from contacting you if you don't want them to.

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