Topic: what is the meaning of real.love
Cutycat's photo
Fri 05/12/23 01:01 PM
for me love of God is the best.but her in online we cant trust too much coz i learn that my past can hurt me only,i am serous to commit a people unhonest is not good coz im bigging him always from the end he well not accept.we need to consider our langguge capacity for being human.love.is.need.to.patient and understanding.

Jams's photo
Fri 05/12/23 03:44 PM
Real love is a complex and deeply personal experience that can be challenging to define definitively, as it can vary from person to person. However, in general, real love encompasses a profound emotional connection, care, and understanding between individuals.

Real love is characterized by:

Authenticity: Real love is genuine and honest. It involves being true to oneself and the other person, without pretense or manipulation. It's about accepting each other's strengths and flaws and embracing each other for who you truly are.
Selflessness: Real love involves putting the needs and well-being of the other person before your own. It's about supporting and caring for each other, even when it requires sacrifice or compromise.
Emotional intimacy: Real love goes beyond physical attraction. It involves a deep emotional bond and a sense of security and trust with your partner. It allows for vulnerability and open communication, fostering a strong emotional connection.
Respect and equality: Real love is built on mutual respect and equality. It involves treating each other with kindness, empathy, and understanding. Both partners value and appreciate each other's perspectives, opinions, and autonomy.
Longevity: Real love endures through the ups and downs of life. It is not solely based on fleeting emotions or external circumstances but is built on a foundation of commitment, loyalty, and shared values. It involves growing together and weathering challenges as a team.
It's important to note that real love is not without its difficulties. It requires effort, communication, and a willingness to work through differences. Real love is a journey of growth and learning, where both partners support and nurture each other's personal development.

Ultimately, the experience of real love is subjective and can vary from person to person. It's essential to remember that everyone may have their own unique understanding and expression of what real love means to them.

Jams's photo
Fri 05/12/23 03:44 PM
Love, from a biological perspective, involves the release of various chemicals in the brain and body that contribute to the experience of attraction, attachment, and bonding. Here are some of the key chemicals associated with love:

Dopamine: Dopamine is often referred to as the "pleasure chemical." It plays a significant role in the brain's reward system and is associated with feelings of pleasure, desire, and motivation. Dopamine is released when we experience something enjoyable or rewarding, such as spending time with a loved one.
Oxytocin: Oxytocin is often called the "cuddle hormone" or the "love hormone." It is released during physical touch, intimacy, and social bonding. Oxytocin is associated with feelings of trust, emotional attachment, and nurturing behavior. It plays a crucial role in forming and maintaining social bonds, including romantic relationships.
Serotonin: Serotonin is a neurotransmitter that regulates mood, happiness, and overall well-being. It is involved in regulating emotions and can contribute to feelings of happiness and contentment when released in certain brain regions. Serotonin levels can be influenced by the presence of a romantic partner and the quality of the relationship.
Vasopressin: Vasopressin is a hormone associated with social bonding and attachment. It plays a role in establishing long-term relationships and is involved in behaviors like pair bonding and parental care. Vasopressin has been linked to increased levels of commitment and monogamy in some studies.
Endorphins: Endorphins are natural painkillers and mood boosters. They are released in response to various stimuli, including physical touch, exercise, and positive social interactions. Endorphins can contribute to the feelings of pleasure and happiness often associated with being in love.
It's important to note that the experience of love is multifaceted and influenced by a combination of biological, psychological, and social factors. The release of these chemicals in the brain provides a biological basis for the emotional and physical sensations associated with love, but they do not solely define or encompass the entirety of love itself.

Morticia's photo
Fri 05/12/23 04:42 PM
Love Is Only A Feeling - The Darkness

Troy Frefree's photo
Fri 05/12/23 05:48 PM
Two souls who implicitly attempt to combine, until our pleased creator calls them for the greatest love of all.

Rock's photo
Fri 05/12/23 07:09 PM
Meh

I love Cheetos

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Fri 05/12/23 10:03 PM
for me love of God is the best.but her in online we cant trust too much coz i learn that my past can hurt me only,i am serous to commit a people unhonest is not good coz im bigging him always from the end he well not accept.we need to consider our langguge capacity for being human.love.is.need.to.patient and understanding.

I do not understand this.

"For me God is best" ok

"But her in online can't trust too much" Who is her because you talk about a him and your picture has a male and female in it.

"I am serious to commit a people unhonest" So you want to commit to liars?

"Not good cause you I am always bigging him up" Bigging who up? cause you still have me confused to "Her in online"

"We need to consider language" Yes we really do, we need to consider what we are saying so people can understand what you are saying. I do not currently.


I am seriously trying to be patient, but I am struggling to understand who her and him in written in the context you have put it.

I mean, this comes as across as a rambling thought. I can't make mind up if you are drunk or speak or English isn't your first language. I am not normally bothered about grammar, but the combination is blowing my mind.

europeanimport7's photo
Sun 05/14/23 02:13 PM

for me love of God is the best.but her in online we cant trust too much coz i learn that my past can hurt me only,i am serous to commit a people unhonest is not good coz im bigging him always from the end he well not accept.we need to consider our langguge capacity for being human.love.is.need.to.patient and understanding.

I do not understand this.

"For me God is best" ok

"But her in online can't trust too much" Who is her because you talk about a him and your picture has a male and female in it.

"I am serious to commit a people unhonest" So you want to commit to liars?

"Not good cause you I am always bigging him up" Bigging who up? cause you still have me confused to "Her in online"

"We need to consider language" Yes we really do, we need to consider what we are saying so people can understand what you are saying. I do not currently.


I am seriously trying to be patient, but I am struggling to understand who her and him in written in the context you have put it.

I mean, this comes as across as a rambling thought. I can't make mind up if you are drunk or speak or English isn't your first language. I am not normally bothered about grammar, but the combination is blowing my mind.


Well, if you still have some braincells left (according to your profile) then you should know that her first language is not English. Give people a bit of room to make mistakes when they write in a foreign language. You should know that the word you are bashing (her) is here. You should also know that when she says bigging that she means begging.
So please try to be a bit more open minded if you can, if not then don't bash people when they make grammatical errors.

Tom4Uhere's photo
Mon 05/15/23 10:44 AM
All love is real or it is not love...its something else.

SerenityBreeze's photo
Sun 05/21/23 12:54 AM
In my humble opinion the meaning of real love is going to vary in description by the experience of the love one has experienced within themselves and for themselves.

Ultimately, we can't love anyone more than we love ourselves, anything beyond that baseline is acting, pretense, need or a hunger. We are the yardstick of our ability to love another.
We cannot give what we are not. The empty vessel cannot pour water into the cup.

So our best description of what love is will be based on our current Evolution of Consciousness at the highest level we've obtained.


AαƚHҽҽɾα's photo
Sun 05/21/23 05:31 AM
Real love can be revealed by people who actually give their presence either in reality or through messages, calls in some way when we are at worst situations in life. We will tend to feel their presence close to us at those critical times in life. They stay permanent in our lives! With them alone, we can be ourselves n share anything we feel!

Edward 's photo
Mon 05/22/23 03:45 PM
Tetelestai love is real love

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Tue 05/30/23 09:13 PM
Real love is forever priceless