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hMMMMMMMMMM here is a thought........why waste your time with someone who obviously only cares about himself and NOT you.....its a one sided love and he is off most likely with another girl and not thinking about you at all......on with his life while YOU pine away for someone who is too selfish to even break up with you properly.....TIME to get some self esteem and self respect and pick yourself off the floor....  So true. Been on that boat ride... |
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No one can "make" you forget until you're ready to forget. If you try that, you're really just using someone, not fair to either one of you. But, you can go out with friends, meet people, have a little fun. Your heart will tell you when you're ready. Then, go for it
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hMMMMMMMMMM here is a thought........why waste your time with someone who obviously only cares about himself and NOT you.....its a one sided love and he is off most likely with another girl and not thinking about you at all......on with his life while YOU pine away for someone who is too selfish to even break up with you properly.....TIME to get some self esteem and self respect and pick yourself off the floor.... So true. Been on that boat ride... I think most of us have at one time or another |
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you will neva forget the pain but you will learn to accept it, this guy like many sounds like an idiot, dont go looking for a guy let him find you.
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I agree with Moondark. I wouldn't start dating until I was completely over him- it's not fair to the guy you're trying to date. I've been on both sides of this, and it's a really bad position to put someone in- and it's really awful if you're in the position yourself, it hurts. But yeah, just try to hang out with your friends and have fun. It's okay to cry about it, too crying can help. Hopefully one day, you won't want to cry over him anymore. Good luck to you.
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It's been like, 2 months or so, since he just up and stopped talking to me, and I'm still not over it. I don't know what my problem was. He was a jerk-face anyway >_< I brought my standards realy down low for him. Mainly because he was a baby-faced sweetheart. Who smoked pot and got drunk every night. I'm not that kind of girl, but I still loved him. And now he won't talk to me anymore. My dad and I was discussing crappy guys, and douchebags that I'd meet in college, and I started talking about my ex, and I started crying in my dad's arms. It was awkward, but it helped. Does anyone think I should be dating, or should I wait until I'm over him? I want to find someone that can make me forget, but is it even possible? Ya know, I remember when I was dating this super hot body builder type woman. I so love her yet... Despite the fact she pushed a grand piano on me and tried to kill me. Then there was that time with that steam roller. Golly... I sure to miss her. Or the time she used me as her kick boxing bag... golly those sure were the times... I often think about her in my vegetative state and think golly she must sure loved me with all that affection she showed. |
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I know how you feel,Ive been there too and a million people can tell you to just get over him, dont call him, hes not worth your time,etc. but its easier said than done. Its so much easier to give advice when your on the outside looking in,isnt it? Maybe getting out into the dating scene again would help keep your mind off of him and maybe you will meet someone else who you really like and then your ex wont matter anymore. It takes time to heal wounds. Good luck...
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Sometimes we most want what we cannot have, even if we know what we cannot have isn't what we really want. Did that make sense?
 Set your standards high and don't settle for anything less than what you deserve. Do whatever it takes to really feel good about yourself, because that is when it will be easier to raise your own standards. Good luck, and I hope you find a truly decent guy. |
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how else will you get over him if you dont start dating?? you gotta be confident you'll get over it eventually just take it one step at a time
good luck 
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