sir ,are you flirting? welcome and good luck with that,if you have any comments, please feel free

a welcomed new guest and interesting perspective, thanks Devita

Wow - Well expressed… (with some humour)

must say...
Replies posted by the ladies are intuitively soulful and practical guides for men..

you present well thought and interesting points of view valkyre, thankyou

yes of course and also the convenience of meeting on a regular basis, thanks

good morning, thankyou for your perspective,always welcomed, the discussion was set up to explore different people from different environments and cultures, expressing their understanding of attraction . i left out my personal perspective as to not dictate. the questions are for you to answer freely , your opinion s and perspective are welcomed,.


this is probably a good moment to mention that these are the personal views being expressed and welcomed

hi Ron, thankyou for your interest and apologies for the confusion,

the question is put, in your opinion is attraction
different depending on culture and environments.
would you like to share your understanding of attraction ? thanks for your input

hi Ron, thankyou for your interest and apologies for the confusion,

the question is put, in your opinion is attraction
different depending on culture and environments.
would you like to share your understanding of attraction ? thanks for your input

You are 100% correct Sir!
But we have no gifts for you...

Ron, Really!? interesting school of thought

Ronald, im not sure what you mean, perhaps a name reference to the McDonald's happy meal with no gift? .. or maybe not..

Same happens to me, I have zero luck with the ladies in Mexico my country, but whenever I travel to Canada and Southeast Asia all of a sudden my luck changes, and no I don't use money

Nope, it is linked to propaganda

If so, then methinks NOVELTY is at least a partial explanation for both of you scoring with foreign women.

KISS = Keep It Simple, Stupid

More often than not we tend to be our own worst enemies. We complicate things which don't need to be complicated.

When considering attraction in today's dating environment there are basically two areas of focus, real-world and online. Both experiences are directly affected by your own personal preferences and the personal preferences of those who encounter you.

The ultimate goal is very much the same, to find that person who is attracted to you as much as you are attracted to them.
What gets in the way is expectations, presentation and acceptance.

When we are attracted to someone we tend to put ourselves in proximity of that person.
Online it might mean repeatedly viewing their profile, following them around in forums and social networking sites or messaging them.
In the real-world we tend to bond closest with the ones we are near. Co-workers, social groups and school. If you travel a lot, you may develop preference for a cultural expression or regional body style.

What many fail to realize is the fact there are usually many people who are attracted to you that you never notice because they don't tick all your preference boxes. People who constantly view your profile, always attend the same social functions, insert themselves into your social groups.

If a woman (or man) repeatedly views your profile but they are not quite right for your preferences, do you 'look' at their profile or just ignore it?
When you look at a profile and the picture is very attractive but the profile is poorly written, are they forever off-limits?

In the real-world, is there someone who is always there and focused on you but you never really notice them because their hair is the wrong length or color or they're too short or tall? Have you tried talking to them personally or is every encounter with them kept at a distance and impersonal?

What I'm saying is attraction is not always the most important factor at the beginning.
Attraction can change with familiarity. The closer you get to someone the more you can be attracted to them.

Seeking your mate thru attraction is a dangerous, often foolish practice. Time changes everyone. We are not statues, we are dynamic human beings with unique experiences which effect us both in appearances and behaviors.

You cannot know the nature of a person until you actually interact with them unscripted, over time.

As noted earlier, there must be some type of chemistry tho. The physical attraction is very important because body chemistry can affect a relationship positively and negatively.

If you base your 'worth' on who is attracted to you, you have ego issues you might want to take a look at.

Sometimes love is realized in the strangest places and if you prevent those possible connections, you are only hurting yourself.

interesting "lets give it a try" could it be its our expectations that are culture based influencing our so called attractions?

hi, propaganda " art rabbit"? indeed

Basel,be respectful mate

nicely written perspective and interesting points of view, thankyou Tom

I'm sorry, scoring was not the right word to use, should have said instead ... being a subject of interest to some foreign women.