Topic: Why Some Mature People Prefer to Remain Single
SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sat 04/02/22 11:28 AM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Sat 04/02/22 11:30 AM
This article is interesting, about people making the decision to remain single. And NOT because they're still not over their ex, or gender bashing stuff.
Just a pure decision for themselves and their life.

How do you feel about this?
Quite a good article that comes up with many valid points.
I stumbled upon it, and I find myself thinking about it of late.

What struck me was the little photo halfway through with the quote:


Only I'd change it into "Empowered women have only 2 options..." as I don't see myself as ambitious.
My problem is more to find an equally empowered man. So it's either finding one or staying alone.
Slight change to the quote :)

THE ARTICLE
http://www.powerofpositivity.com/mature-people-remain-single/?fbclid=IwAR3mJ_9Jv7YfeWybHj97U_y-BfMeMJTsl1IXdafO9uBK166cGYinm6C8BoM

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Sat 04/02/22 11:38 AM
These is some Mature topic by now.:thumbsup:

Good I'm still Single

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Sat 04/02/22 11:57 AM
Hi i wonder here to meet mature women

🍫 KitKat 🍫's photo
Sat 04/02/22 12:05 PM
Edited by 🍫 KitKat 🍫 on Sat 04/02/22 12:19 PM
I'm single and I'm staying single!
I've spent my entire life caring and supporting family and friends! Both sets of grandparents, raised 4 daughters, ex's ,dad thru the dementia (holy hell), during the pademic and now mom.... I'm frickin exhausted and do not want another person to care for. I'm done!

Oh ps hopefully this post wasn't against what you consider okwhoa Not directed towards any one person, no flirting,, nada, just my view

cleve's photo
Sat 04/02/22 12:26 PM
Edited by cleve on Sat 04/02/22 12:29 PM

Hi i wonder here to meet mature women


WOMEN ARE ATTRACTED TO MEN OF EQUAL OR HIGHER

SOCIAL STATUS AS A RULE.....THE MORE MATURE YOU

ARE THE MORE MATURE WOMAN YOU WILL ATTRACT.WE ALL

BRING TO THE TABLE OUR FAMILY DYNAMICS....

WHAT I MEAN BY FAMILY DYNAMICS ARE THE EMOTIONAL

GAMES THAT WHERE PLAYED AND OUR PART IN

THEM....YOU

ALSO BRING YOUR FAMILY DYNAMICS TO THE

RELATIONSHIP.........THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON WE

NEED TO MEET AND GET TO KNOW IS OURSELVES.....OUR

INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS PURPOSE IS FINISH

CHILDHOOD........AND YOU MUST BE AUTHENTIC.....THE

HIGHER HER SOCIAL STATUS THE MORE SHE WILL TEST

YOU......GOOD LUCK

motowndowntown's photo
Sat 04/02/22 12:37 PM
I guess it depends on what is meant by; empowered, strong, or ambitious.

Could be no one wants to hang out with somebody who is whiny, self-centered, and demanding. So the choice to remain alone is not really a choice.

Could also be that, "super supportive" is code speak for "super submissive", and there just aren't that many men like that out there.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sat 04/02/22 01:34 PM

I'm single and I'm staying single!
I've spent my entire life caring and supporting family and friends! Both sets of grandparents, raised 4 daughters, ex's ,dad thru the dementia (holy hell), during the pademic and now mom.... I'm frickin exhausted and do not want another person to care for. I'm done!

Oh ps hopefully this post wasn't against what you consider okwhoa Not directed towards any one person, no flirting,, nada, just my view

Hihi, you be as adamant as you want, girl!
It is quite something you've done, phew!
As long as your happy, whether single or not!
:heart: flowerforyou

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sat 04/02/22 01:36 PM

I guess it depends on what is meant by; empowered, strong, or ambitious.

Could be no one wants to hang out with somebody who is whiny, self-centered, and demanding. So the choice to remain alone is not really a choice.

Could also be that, "super supportive" is code speak for "super submissive", and there just aren't that many men like that out there.

That quote -in its adapted version- is what matters to me, not what the entire article is about.

Okean Smith's photo
Sat 04/02/22 07:17 PM
as a young man I prefer to be with a woman that is more mature an understand how a relationship should be an how to treat your partner

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Sun 04/03/22 01:46 AM
Edited by 'Next Chapter on Sun 04/03/22 01:53 AM
You're reply is very thought provoking 'motowndowntown' and valid (thank you)... As always there are so many aspects to consider.

Notwithstanding, whatever any woman decides for themself it is always best to be inspired by God, true to your own individual spirit/heart, and fueled for the glory of God.

Just, live with no regrets - and - claim your intrinsic human right of 'freedom of choice' to change your mind at anytime! Shalom

Mercedes's photo
Thu 04/07/22 12:38 PM

I'm single and I'm staying single!
I've spent my entire life caring and supporting family and friends! Both sets of grandparents, raised 4 daughters, ex's ,dad thru the dementia (holy hell), during the pademic and now mom.... I'm frickin exhausted and do not want another person to care for. I'm done!

Oh ps hopefully this post wasn't against what you consider ok Not directed towards any one person, no flirting,, nada, just my view

Aww so sorry