Topic: Yet another one
AngelusSolus's photo
Sat 02/19/22 04:00 PM
Edited by AngelusSolus on Sat 02/19/22 04:03 PM
So far I've had plenty of views, but all I've had contact me are women who want to chat on google hangouts. I'm starting to wonder if I just don't have a good write-up. This doesn't come easy to me, so after writing, and editing it to death, I gave up and just distilled it down to what I'm looking for and what I'm willing to give in return. Any suggestions would be helpful.

no photo
Sat 02/19/22 04:22 PM
Maybe you should make the first move? If you see a profile you find interesting, say the first hello to them. Your profile is good enough in my opinion.

Poetrywriter's photo
Sat 02/19/22 05:27 PM
You need to fill in your interests.

AngelusSolus's photo
Sat 02/19/22 06:31 PM
I guess I'm paranoid about being ignored. I've been on Plenty of Fish, OkCupid and Eharmony. None of my messages were replied to and I was with all of them for about six months each.

AngelusSolus's photo
Sat 02/19/22 06:35 PM
Edited by AngelusSolus on Sat 02/19/22 07:34 PM

You need to fill in your interests.


I guess I could, as few as there are. I can't believe calligraphy or even writing isn't in their list.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sun 02/20/22 02:28 AM
It doesn't sound appealing. Reads as if your heart isn't in it, aloof.
I suggest rewriting what you have (rephrase it, not come up with new stuff) so it has a nice feel to it.
And by all means remove that last sentence!
Always pretty lame when a man thinks/expects women to do all the work and contact him.
Be active yourself and reach out.
If you haven't the stamina or confidence for that best quit trying to find someone for now.

Get a better profile photo, of your face with a smile. This is too far away on a small thumbnail.

Larsi666 😽's photo
Sun 02/20/22 05:23 AM
Seems, nobody mentioned it before. But if somebody wants to switch over to the likes of Hangouts, be aware, this is a warning sign. Usually scammers do this.

 Ꮢ Ꭷ Ᏸ ɨ Ꮑ's photo
Sun 02/20/22 11:35 AM
Yet Another One
Welcome To Mingle
All The Best :thumbsup:

Focus on what you been joined the sites for, an just stay safe an act smartly.. No providing any info quickly until you're know well by both end....
hangout, whtsapp, fb, insta.. say bye.. then why they be here... To catch fish or prey...:laughing::stuck_out_tongue:
Anyways, i guess you know what's good for you. tc.

AngelusSolus's photo
Sun 02/20/22 12:05 PM

It doesn't sound appealing. Reads as if your heart isn't in it, aloof.
I suggest rewriting what you have (rephrase it, not come up with new stuff) so it has a nice feel to it.


I find that rather amusing, considering when I had a more developed profile on Plenty of Fish I was accused of coming across as pretentious.

Rock's photo
Sun 02/20/22 06:56 PM
As previously stated, include some of
your interests. 5 or 6, would be a good
start.

As to who contacts you...
You can set your email filters to limit
who can contact you.

Also, as previously stated, beware of
anyone who wants to go to off site
hangouts too soon.