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Topic: Is Sex a part of Love?
Slim gym 's photo
Sun 01/23/22 10:58 AM
No clue ... will ask her after the act 1 scene 2

Angie Vivi's photo
Sun 01/23/22 01:56 PM
Yes it is part maybe 1/8 ..

Ravi's photo
Sun 01/23/22 10:13 PM
Sex is Extreme Height of Love..

Ravi's photo
Sun 01/23/22 10:14 PM
sex is last expression of Love

Jean 's photo
Wed 01/26/22 03:57 PM
Maybe Yes

dwsdws4545's photo
Fri 01/28/22 09:44 AM
yes

David Michael 's photo
Fri 01/28/22 11:08 AM
You can be in a romantic relationship with someone without sex, and you can have sex without love.



yes, but both are wrong. unless you're unable to physically connect with your lover you are doing both of you an injustice by not showing the affection that is as natural and necessary to all living creatures as air or food.

if I love a woman and she becomes paralyzed, I will not abandon her. But if she makes a conscious decision to arbitrary disregard my needs she is selfish and unworthy of my love!

Sex without love is a degradation of the beauty that God planed for it to be.

it's not romantic, it's degenerative and disrespectful to our creator.

that's why all the porno videos have titles like brother ****s step mom, and dad and daughter suck neighbors dick.

it's a plot against God, and against the moral standards of our cultures.

sorry Ava I'm not attacking you, please know I'm your friend, I'm just expressing my opinion.

maybe I'm wrong if so, please tell me.

















David Michael 's photo
Fri 01/28/22 11:18 AM
The only sex I've had I had to pay for and I'm pretty sure that wasn't love



I'm sorry David, keep your head up!

change is in the wind.

make sure you don't take it for granted my dear brother.

love is precious, and it's been waiting for you to be ready and responsible enough to care for.

Your time us coming, act accordingly.

Michael

David Michael 's photo
Fri 01/28/22 11:23 AM
SEX...is how animals reproduce. (yes, we are animals (certainly not plants)

Human beings possess intelligence and culture. We are social animals and we build our 'world' around our social culture.

Part of this social culture is love for one another and love for our mate greater than our love for others.

Most people in their prime adulthood are driven by a need to reproduce. We date, marry and build our families with love as a guiding principle to our reproduction needs.

From the animal nature of the human being, love is not necessary for sex or the reproduction of our species.

From the society standpoint of being a person who values love, many people link love and sex together. Its a societal baseline we adopted as social creatures.

Thru ones life there are many reasons why we no longer have a drive to reproduce. This doesn't mean we never want sex anymore. Sex feels good.
Its supposed to.

So, sex is part of love and love is part of sex for the most part but there are circumstances when those two values do not combine and that's normal as well.

You can love someone but not desire sex with them.
You can have sex with someone but never form a loving bond with them.

Many marriages end because the love bond fades away but they also end when the sex is no longer pleasing with that person.

Many things in life affect our libidos. Stress, Rx drugs, health, hygiene, lifestyles and age.

Once you have reproduced to fill your needs, sex is a pleasurable activity many people continue to do. When you or you partner are no longer trying to fulfill an imperative or animalistic need to reproduce sometimes one might want to end the relationship to have sex as pleasure only. Sadly, many people don't do this right and hurt the ones who love ya. It can get pretty bad.

If you gotta have sex with someone else, be an adult and end the relationship without hurting the other. If you play games with the heart, bad things happen.



I think you are a wise and thoughtful man, please read my poetry in the poems and creative writing section, also I have made some comments in this thread, furthermore I would like to be your friend please reach out to me, should you be so inclined.

thank you

Michael

Ryan 's photo
Fri 01/28/22 04:09 PM
as a teenager that was my main mission in life.. then you grow up and search for a true mate.. and love

David Michael 's photo
Fri 01/28/22 05:06 PM
as a teenager that was my main mission in life.. then you grow up and search for a true mate.. and love


best of luck,


God is love

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