Topic: Looks or Love?
thunderbear1967's photo
Sat 12/29/07 04:24 PM
love, just want love

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Sat 12/29/07 04:25 PM
I was once told by a teacher,he said 'if you and I were to stand in front of a mirror and you described me and you and I described you and me there would be many differences in the description,it is up to the individuals if they are attracted to each other because when it boils down to it we are all beautiful,period,just a thought.

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Sat 12/29/07 04:26 PM
quistion; are we to picky is that why we are here or is it that the other person just needs to step up and be wat we need them to be. lollaugh

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Sat 12/29/07 04:26 PM
Edited by Sumthingdifferent on Sat 12/29/07 04:28 PM
For anyone who would say that "looks" don't matter..they are full of chit!! :tongue: laugh laugh

I already had proven this with a thread before Christmas.

I do agree with those that say "love + attraction" I think that is a very healthy balance.

Love should be the most important, but you have to have that physical attraction to complete the circle too.

But what do I know..I'm just a baby! :tongue: drinker laugh

Italy0219's photo
Sat 12/29/07 04:33 PM
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, remember what one person finds attractive the next person might say, forget it....bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile

Italy0219's photo
Sat 12/29/07 04:35 PM
although one of my most serious relationships was physical attraction first, but it did not stand the test of time, cause we just had too many differences, so looks are NOT everything, but they are only a START....from then on, it takes WORKlaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

Racquel's photo
Sat 12/29/07 04:35 PM

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, remember what one person finds attractive the next person might say, forget it....bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile


couldnt have said it better myself.

Racquel's photo
Sat 12/29/07 04:39 PM
the only thing i have to say about getting to know someone that has only good looks...LAME. lol.

its like come on! what are you going to do when you are with the a$$/Bit*h because she is hot and they get in a tragic accident and get all uglied up? kinda like Karma i guess. what happened to all the guys that are hott and have a personallity?

Mcats3's photo
Sat 12/29/07 04:41 PM
Well, I dated a model before and he was a real sweetheart.But it didn't work out because we both had really busy Schedules. But as for the question I would pick LOVE

blonderockermom's photo
Sat 12/29/07 04:43 PM
Love, Love, Love :heart: bigsmile

caiternoodle's photo
Sat 12/29/07 05:01 PM
I think love is the most imporant.. Looking cute is just a bonus, lol.

TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 12/29/07 05:29 PM
Well love is the most important part but.............. if there is no attraction either there looks, personality, humor, eyes, smile or something that attracted you to that person you are not gonna give them the time of day. I have dated guys from ones that was Very good looking to what some would call average none at any time I would call ugly. But each one had a personality to kill for and that is what really caught my attention on most yeah I said most my ex was very good looking and still is. With him it was his smile and and eyes took me for a loop. But there has to be something there that makes one want to look further within first. Plain and simple.bigsmile If you dont like the package your not gonna open it to see what is inside it happens all the time I know.

There are a lot of men as soon as they see a women is full figured they turn away and never look any futher think I care nope cause if that is what makes them turn away I don't want them to talk to me. I'm not something to pity. Hey this is me if ya dont like the package see ya!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh

Knotworthy's photo
Sat 12/29/07 05:34 PM
There has to be an attraction but it's what's inside that counts

TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 12/29/07 05:35 PM

There has to be an attraction but it's what's inside that counts



Awwww thank you I rest my case lolbigsmile drinker drinker smokin

Wormfodder's photo
Sat 12/29/07 06:09 PM

the only thing i have to say about getting to know someone that has only good looks...LAME. lol.

its like come on! what are you going to do when you are with the a$$/Bit*h because she is hot and they get in a tragic accident and get all uglied up? kinda like Karma i guess. what happened to all the guys that are hott and have a personallity?


DING! DING! We have a winner. Hey that is what I go by. Attraction is looking across the room and saying: "That person is HOT!". Love is looking across the room 30 years later and saying the same thing. Just a thought...

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Sat 12/29/07 06:09 PM
love is complicated.
just because someone is ''hot'' doesnt mean that they are less likley to be someone whom can love you more than another/someone whom isnt ''hot''.

love is all you need.
looks are a bonus, and for most are part of their standards.

When you think about it, romantic love is just the addiction to the emotions they experiance from being with YOU therefore they love YOU because you are the source of that.
If you cant make some one FEEL; of course they will seem to love themselves more than you.
They dont love you, they love the emotions you give them.
cynical but true and you do it too.

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Sat 12/29/07 06:56 PM


the only thing i have to say about getting to know someone that has only good looks...LAME. lol.

its like come on! what are you going to do when you are with the a$$/Bit*h because she is hot and they get in a tragic accident and get all uglied up? kinda like Karma i guess. what happened to all the guys that are hott and have a personallity?


DING! DING! We have a winner. Hey that is what I go by. Attraction is looking across the room and saying: "That person is HOT!". Love is looking across the room 30 years later and saying the same thing. Just a thought...


AGREED

popcornncoke's photo
Sat 12/29/07 07:16 PM
LOVE,TRUE AND HONEST LOVE!!!!!!!

mlafolle's photo
Sat 12/29/07 07:28 PM
i hear everyone talk about love but i never see it! more than half of every merrage today ends up in a divorse, how are we suppose to know what love is without a dad and a mother in our lives to show us?! i have almost given up on love, i would be happy for just a true friend that is always ther for me insted of a wife that will take half of everything when she leaves.

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Sat 12/29/07 08:59 PM
Well, I for one don't know the TRUE meaning of Love...thought I experienced it, only to come to the full realization that it wasn't love, infatuation perhaps, I don't think I've ever truly LOVED anyone..except my immediate family...

Sooo, does that mean I'm all for Looks?..hmmm..methinks Not.glasses noway
Can't judge a book by its cover...hell, can't judge period huh.drinker