She has major problems and needs a psychologist. Also, she probably has low self esteem, which she also needs to work on. It's always baffled me why women stay with bad men. However, I've had 2 female friends killed by their bad estranged husbands when they went to leave them, it's all about domestic violence. ;(

I'd like to find one nice man, myself, but so many seem to be way too shallow and that's not the kind of guy I'd even talk to.

Youssef....I am far from being weak as you pointed out. Maybe you are mistaking confidence for arrogance!

He didn't say that. He said "people mistake nice guys for weak". He didn't say nice guys were weak.

I also believe his discussion of confidence in oneself is not misinterpreted for arrogance which is considered negative.

J

Ssssshhhh cause they are too slow instead of getting out there they sit back and complain about finishing last can't finish first if they are still at the starting line scratching there heads wondering my oh my why can't I win.

Hummm sorry guys but have heard this so many times had to throw my two cents in lol

Nice guys finish last because a woman can't respect a weak man. Being a nice guy is not like being a Good Guy. But to answer your question from the general aspect of it, I would say that women seek the bad men because of high divorce rates. A bad guy takes control of the confused women who did not have a father figure in their life, or a good one. Therefore, they do not know how to tell the difference between what is ideal and what is not. Watch the media, that is what they go off of. Sex sells, and you will not find a nice guy doing these things. It is like asking for a woman to look like a porn star, give you sex like a champ, but be faithful to you and not give you a reason to believe they are cheating on you. Though it is very possible, it is not likely.

With this being said, I do not wish to offend all women by making this generalized theory. I am just speaking on behalf of my experiences and what I have seen. Besides, if you are still considered young.... Have no kids, and have no finished college.. My advice is "Relationships are for suckers"! This guy (me) will finish last and doesn't care. LOL Life gives you what it is supposed to give you. If it didn't work out, then GOOD! It wasn't for you anyways. Be patient, life will work out as it needs to.