From my experience I have learned to be honest and open with those I care to be in a relationship with relationships are not easy it’s give-and-take one can run into a lot of narcissists and I have they will suck the life out of you.It seems like everybody has an agenda I honestly can say I don’t have an agenda and people that meet me and start to know we usually say wow you don’t even have an agenda my agenda is to be happy enjoy life to the fullest be outdoors do the things I love keeps you young I’m usually pretty good at taking care of my partners needs and when you give from your heart you will receive tenfold

aly if you were here i think it would happen

I would say we all have an agenda, whether we realize it or not. Bad or good, we all want something out of a relationship. Especially if we've had a history of bad relationships, or we attract narcissists etc. We always tell people the good side of us to attract them, but not the not so good side. Maybe we are the bad guy but we don't even know it. I was probably the cause of why my previous relationships failed but I never realized. You often don't see your own flaws, but others do.

you are becoming wise beyond your years.......most people DO NOT

take ownership of there part in there relationships....WE TEACH

PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT US.....HOW??? GLAD YOU ASKED....BY WHAT WE

WILL EXCEPT, WHAT WE WILL NOT EXCEPT, AND WHAT WE

REINFORCE.....ALL OF US ARE LOOKING FOR PEOPLE WHO WILL SUPPORT

OUR FAVORITE FEELINGS, VALIDATE OUR BELIEFS ABOUT OURSELVES AND

OTHERS.....THE PROBLEMS PEOPLE HAVE IN RELATIONSHIPS ARE JUST

SURFACE NOISE....PROBLEMS ARE CREATED BY HOW WE BEHAVE TOWARDS

OTHERS...YOU CAN NOT FIX A PROBLEM BY FOCUSING ON THE NOISE....WE

NEED TO REALLY LISTEN TO OTHERS IN A WAY THAT THEY KNOW WE HEARD

THEM, IT GO'S A LONG WAY TO BUILD TRUST, SAFETY, AND EMPATHY....

I have a great relationship with my gym , and we workout great together!!!

hello am brett and I am new here

A good relationship takes time to form, moving too quickly is when we don't see, or overlook, many things during those first and early dates. Don't rush, get to know each other very well over at least a year, those couples that become the best of friends are those that form good long lasting relationships in my opinion.

Good Guidelines
I Agree