i completely understand, when i tried to start this business 2 years ago. i quit my job to stay home with the kid, she was suppossed to work, her idea not mine. she never got a job at all. we ran short on money s i started doing things on the side to make enough to cover rent. she made me stop because she didn;t want to watch the kid here and there. long story short we got evicted, i was flat broke, she walked out, i started doing odd jobs again, built up enough to start a business. in less then a year i went from a 40k a year job and supporting 3 people, to making over 300ka year and supporting 2. and now she's pissed because "i didn;t do this when it counted"


wonder who was keeping who down there?????

I wonder where ya'll got the idea that I think people who like to be alone are nothing?


This is the number one reason why I love forums... people are so easily offended and they always twist your words for a fight.

I meant that love is worth more than money. I stand by it.
I wouldn't trade my kids or my best friends for all the money or things in the world.
Sorry but I just can't see how money makes people THAT happy and fulfilled.

Will YOU marry me,,,,,lol
I feel and daily feel that even one hour alone is just nuts,
because THATS one hour THAT I could be SHARING a LIFE with another soul and EACH learning each others HEARTS!!!

does this mean my life is worthless??

sharing ourselves with others. it is the currency of life. that does not mean that i don't like cats & dogs or being alone.

I learned this the hard way -- I would rather be alone than be with the wrong person. Too many times, I found myself just as "alone" IN a relationship, as I was without one.

No LIFE is worthless!!!!

But OK, maybe YOU DO come as a close second.,,,,,LOL,LOL




Just kiddin ya.

Well said!

<--------currently celebate hermit, but not a nothing either. Life IS worth living whether you have someone to share it with or not. This in response to your title of this thread. It was a statement, not a question, so no picking fights

Dammm Lex, That WAS my LAST ONE to.....for real...

And I told her I would rather live life alone than to be in a relationship, that I felt ALONE IN,,,

Guess it depends on how comfortable one is within their own skin, to have fun alone that is...I don't have a problem with it...if my friends aren't available (most are married) then I'll go to the movies alone, or a museum, or whatever..I guess it just depends on the individual..I have a friend that won't go ANYWHERE alone..the mall, the grocery store, sheesh, she'll call me to ask me to go grocery shopping with her...which I do, cuz she's a GREAT friend..the price one pays for friendship (ok, that was my attempt at humor)..

Ditto...how come you take the words out of my mouth?..what's up with that?...sheeesh..

I paid Lex to say that..

Hidden microphone in your kitchen.

You'd be surprised how far I would go to get ideas for posts....

I hate being alone. One of the things I firmly believe in is family. It sucks when one is single and believes in family.

I dont think that these people "like" to be alone but are and have come to terms with it and if someone amazing came along then they would jump at the chance. But to say that life is not worth living unless you have another (spouse,bf/gf) sounds ludicrous to me......ridiculous actually!!! Soooooooooo ya I can go to the grocery store and mall and even to the gas station alone and Im ok with that!!! I can even go into a restaurant and eat by myself if I so choose and I think nothing....ppl have to eat.....so unless you have absolutely no self esteem or self worth then I guess you will "need" to have someone walk you to the bathroom and help you with that toilet paper!!

I apologize if you misinterpreted what I said..that isn't my intent..

fyi, not to belittle you or degrade you, being happy with ones success and manner in which they live does not mean they use "stuff" to make them happy. nor does that mean that the only way to be happy is to have a significant other.

to this i say, if you rely on others to make you happy you are indeed co-dependant. happiness comes from with in, not how another makes you feel about yourself.

Moody........I was talking to the OP of this thread.....