Well, first thought is to climb out of this miry clay of a pit I put myself in. Also to elevate above all the infedelity that I allowed myself to endure. I am in the process of rebuilding myself and getting closer to loving self. I know down deep in my heart that I'm not ready for another serious relationship. but would love to have companionship to help get my mind off of what eats at me everyday. I know I have to forgive myself and thank the person who chose infedelity. I lost myself in the midst of a 6 year marriage. Now that I have come to terms and accepted that I was wrong, it's time to move on. I'm feeling heartbroken and trying to figure out what step to take first. While the other half is continually having fun. I was pushed away from a roof over my head, wheels under my feet to a house that doesn't have water and a couch full of dog hair that makes me itch like crazy during the night. I toss and turn and stay up late hours of the night missing the comfort of my bed. Then start thinking about my kids not having to witness this homelessness and loneliness that their dad is experiencing. I left everything! But now it's time to rebuild and do things differently. by starting off and making friends. instead of jumping head first into false hope relationships. Feel free to give advice.

If your Heart is broken , you can take it to the Nearest WORKSHOP.
Happy Mingling take care next time .

After 6 years of relationship you feel you were wrong,
then better correct yourself first being yourselves an take a time of break not broking others heart..
an tried to screw up what you have loss instead of hooking for new..
Be a Men not a boredom...

Good Luck

generally men do not have permission to feel there feelings and

emotions,,,, when grieving a person will normally drift from one

feeling to the next from sad, mad, and even scared. its important

to give your self permission to feel you feelings as they come up.

over time you will feel much better and understand better what

really happened. it may help if you can find some one who will

really listen without judgement.if not you can put a empty chair in

front of you and imagine the person you need to talk to and share

your feelings.........sometimes a good cry will help heal the

pain......when my circuits over loaded and my energy level gets

low i will do something for the little boy inside me that always

lifts my spirits.....most of the problems people have is because

the natural child in them is wounded by the lack of a nurturing

parent, a overly critical parent,and or a unstable adult

example....good luck...p.s. one thing i see a lot of children not getting enough of just being held and listened in a way that there words are heard in same way they were spoken and reflected back the same....repeating back to them helps them understand and clear any distortions.....

My friend you not alone I spent 14 years being blinded by a woman be unfaithful to me and made me think I was the problem, trust this is she was unfaithful you are NOT the problem

The genuine and honest ones are always the ones who suffer. Speeking from the experience. But Bro, dust yourself and move on. It is better said than done I know but one day at a time. It shall be well for you.

You have to take it one day at a time, in the mean time try searching for a shelter, I think it might not be the best place but it might be better than where you're at right now. And most important of all if you don't have anyone to talk to, then talk to God, because only he knows what you're going through and also how you feel. I hope my advice hemos you.

Hi Tony .. welcome to mingle I was a little confused reading your post .... are you saying you were unfaithful or was your partner unfaithful ???

Loving the wrong person is never a fault of anyone. The moment we find out it should never have been, we are already fallen deep into the pit. But what is important is that when you come to realizing the truth about your mistake, you come to terms with yourself, get up and move on. The feeling of hurt will always be there because when you love you will always get hurt. Just feel it. You are human anyway. But never linger on the pain. Learn from it. Build a stronger character from it. Then use the learnings on your next endeavor. Never let the experience make you bitter.. but better. Continue to love. But first learn to love yourself.