Topic: Y is it sometimes a man's don't understand that a women's do
Tilly's photo
Thu 08/12/21 08:37 AM
It's just that we don't always know what we are looking for . Can we not just go with the flow and see what happens . And it's frustrating being asked Evey cupple minutes what Ur looking for y can't there just be chats do there rely have to be an outcome with Evey man or women u speak with :thinking:

Slim gym 's photo
Thu 08/12/21 08:54 AM
well it is a dating site ... some kinda outcome is hoped for or expected ... not every one is looking for love and romance .... its like window shopping..... but not a complete waste of time ... just saying !!

Tom4Uhere's photo
Thu 08/12/21 09:22 AM

It's just that we don't always know what we are looking for . Can we not just go with the flow and see what happens . And it's frustrating being asked Evey cupple minutes what Ur looking for y can't there just be chats do there rely have to be an outcome with Evey man or women u speak with :thinking:

well it is a dating site ...
Most people have some type of plan for meeting someone.
Someone who fulfills their desires.
To figure that out, they ask questions.

For some, the bar scene doesn't work.
What you describe seems to me like something you would do in a bar.
Perhaps you would have better luck if you mingled around in a bar or pub?

If yer just lookin ta get laid, there are better places. No small talk, no questions, just show a bit of leg and go home with someone. Get what ya need and leave.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 08/12/21 09:36 AM
Well, maybe if you get a proper profile it will become better. You're basically saying you have so little to say that you aren't going to say 'eny' in your profile blurb as you then have nothing to talk about anymore.
If you have so little to say and share it'll be difficult.

Also get a good profile photo, and for pete's sake, keep an eye on your spelling. Reading your post was like having to decode a secret message. Few men looking for a great woman will make that effort.

So put in some effort yourself, certainly in your profile & photo, and see if that helps.

no photo
Fri 08/27/21 03:41 PM
Yeah, what Tilly said. :blush::thumbsup: