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Topic: What am I doing wrong???
isaac_dede's photo
Thu 12/27/07 09:00 PM
Nothing wrong with you, but if you're thinking there is when your on a date it will show it may be because of the divorce...if you thought there was something wrong with you and that is why it ended. But because of that there MIGHT possibly be a lack of confidence and guys do pick up on that...at least i do. But also remember dating is a numbers game. you said you've been asked out twice in a year period....so it leads me to beleive i'm probably right. Don't be afraid of rejection and just go for it...if it doesn't work out with the first guy it might with the sixth...not only that but when a guy rejects you and you don't let it phase you and act like you can do better anyway it makes them wonder what gives you that convidence and 8 out of 10 times they stick around to find out. Just my opinion i know i'm young but that's just my experiences thus far

Totage's photo
Thu 12/27/07 09:08 PM
Yeah, I think once you get over everything and relax, and just enjoy the moment, everything will work out for you. Just give it time, and try not to worry about it too much.

buttons's photo
Thu 12/27/07 09:25 PM
your fine.... i know ive backed out before myself... had nothing at all to do with them it was me i wasnt ready to dateflowerforyou

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Thu 12/27/07 09:26 PM
just b urself and when the time is right the right person will come to u

HJFinAZ's photo
Thu 12/27/07 09:32 PM

your fine.... i know ive backed out before myself... had nothing at all to do with them it was me i wasnt ready to dateflowerforyou


sad

HJFinAZ's photo
Sun 12/30/07 07:33 AM

Help..I'm looking for suggestions...

I guess I don't even know how to put this into words..

I am newly Divorced..(about a year now)..I haven't had a date
in all that time..I've been asked out twice..but both have backed out on me at the last min..I concider myself very friendly..and a little flirtatious..have a great sense of humor.I'm a great listener..I don't know what I'm doing wrong...
Is it my looks?? ..I'm not a Barbie Doll by any means..but I don't think I'm ugly...

HELP...

Have you tried the 6 (SIX) commandments? Just a thought..:wink:


klugman's photo
Sun 12/30/07 07:39 AM

Help..I'm looking for suggestions...

I guess I don't even know how to put this into words..

I am newly Divorced..(about a year now)..I haven't had a date
in all that time..I've been asked out twice..but both have backed out on me at the last min..I concider myself very friendly..and a little flirtatious..have a great sense of humor.I'm a great listener..I don't know what I'm doing wrong...
Is it my looks?? ..I'm not a Barbie Doll by any means..but I don't think I'm ugly...

HELP...



You are one of the most beautiful people on this site Angela.

Beauty starts in the heart.

Your friend, Dan

oldsage's photo
Sun 12/30/07 07:42 AM
I would bet it is their loss & your better off for not going out with those folks.
Go slow, be yourself & enjoy life.
Seems that good things happen when you least expect it.
Jump in the forums & make friends.

urgide's photo
Sun 12/30/07 07:52 AM
Its not what your doing sweetheart, it's simply how it is! We all experience the same thing but on a different level. Maybe try a different approach, get aggressive and step outside the box. It comes with lots of highs and lows. The lows just have a tendancy to keep us low if we let it. You will find that those who send us to the low are lower than we are and dont want us to enjoy the high. I know...bla bla bla, Im a married man! I get a lot of flack for that but theres a lot of married people here doing the same thing. Keep your chin up, step outside the box. At least from here you can only go up!

Muddysneakers77's photo
Sun 12/30/07 08:03 AM
Wish I could give you some advice..but if i knew the solution to your problem (cause its the same as mine)...I wouldnt be single.

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