Topic: Love or sex
Zee's photo
Wed 02/25/26 01:28 PM

Is love all about sex or something else?


IMO, no, it's something else..

to me it's a bond, a connection with another soul..
a deeper, meaningful union on multiple levels, sex, albeit an important one, is only part of that overall relationship...

Zee's photo
Wed 02/25/26 01:30 PM
and here we go again.. wonder if ma magic wand will flip this to the next page??

Zee's photo
Wed 02/25/26 01:30 PM
must be outta juice laugh shall we try again?

Zee's photo
Wed 02/25/26 01:31 PM
*sighs* this disappearing posts act is gettin pretty old.. ZAPPPPPP

Zee's photo
Wed 02/25/26 01:31 PM
I give up........... frustrated tears

Zee's photo
Fri 02/27/26 06:28 AM
holy moley this thread hasn't flipped YET to the new page.. noway this is nuts..

when I does.. all yer gonna see is MOI bigsmile like it or not laugh

ZAP..

Slim gym 's photo
Fri 02/27/26 02:40 PM
At my age its only about FWB OR LTA..... take it or leave it ....

Ayman's photo
Fri 02/27/26 06:30 PM
Love is the basis sex is meaningless without love

no photo
Fri 02/27/26 06:49 PM
Romance

DirtyDancer's photo
Fri 02/27/26 08:19 PM

I disagree, love can be the most amazing feeling ever but love can also make you want to end your life. Make you want to stop existing. Love can be the most excruciating emotion ever. The worst pain you can imagine and then some. But only those who have had to experience losing love know what i mean. Also, those who say you must have love for sex to be good are mistaken as well. They have never had that electric connection with someone they didn't love. Sexual pleasure is one of the greatest gifts we can give to each other. In no other way can you make someone feel so incredible, if only for a short time. So sex can absolutely be incredible without love and love isn't always a wonderful thing. Just because someone else doesn't love you does not change the fact you love them. But love is not a choice. You don't choose to love someone. You realize you love someone. It's not a choice. It's more an understanding than a choice. Also, love is not exclusive. We are capable of loving more than one person. Think of your kids. You love all of them don't you? Yes you do so you CAN love more than one person at the same time. I think the beliefs we were taught about love and sex are in need of an update because there are a lot of misconceptions in these comments.

You wrote a very good article here, and I like it! No doubt, you have experienced tremendous loss in love, as have I, and thank God you actually survived, as did I, because, based on your experience, you articulate your feelings and thoughts very well. Thank you for sharing this.

DirtyDancer's photo
Fri 02/27/26 08:26 PM

for me here I think sex is being required to have a perfect love burn

Well put. . . I could not agree more:heart_exclamation:

DirtyDancer's photo
Fri 02/27/26 08:45 PM

At my age its only about FWB OR LTA..... take it or leave it ....

I’m curious. Do you mean FWB or LTR? Or, what does LTA mean?
If you meant LTR, then, I’m not sure how FWB coincides with LTR, unless you’re good with either (as I am). . . ???
We might have some things in common, as two straight men, and I wonder how you’re doing on this App? Your potential friend, Ray

Slim gym 's photo
Sat 02/28/26 05:54 AM
@ Dirty Dancer


LTA means Living Together Apart... its an old concept shared by many older people and is catching on pretty fast .
Think of it as being on a perpetual first date. And you know how those dates panned out. Its an exclusive commitment to sharing and caring with that one person who sets your heart on fire .....but without the legal hassles in case of relationship break down.

TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 02/28/26 10:39 AM

@ Dirty Dancer


LTA means Living Together Apart... its an old concept shared by many older people and is catching on pretty fast .
Think of it as being on a perpetual first date. And you know how those dates panned out. Its an exclusive commitment to sharing and caring with that one person who sets your heart on fire .....but without the legal hassles in case of relationship break down.


Honestly, best bf relationship I had lasted 12 years he had his place I had mine.. it was ideal due to both of my kids were under 10 at the time.

Tasha Ryan's photo
Sat 02/28/26 02:47 PM
I love sex

Slim gym 's photo
Sat 02/28/26 03:13 PM
@TxsGal333


Tell me about it.

Best part is when and if that LTA relationship fails there are no Lawyers involved to grab your money , and you actually end up keeping that 50% you had from the first marriage , if you had one ..
But finding a similar one gets harded by the day ha ha !!!

Lauren bell's photo
Sat 02/28/26 05:16 PM
love and sex are both good as long we are both righteous person and honest with each other

no photo
Sat 02/28/26 06:54 PM
it's passion

hi Shobha, I too need a friend

Maddy S's photo
Wed 03/04/26 04:55 PM
its always dex

before giving negative impression here. ask ur mom what is needed here

Maria's photo
Wed 03/04/26 07:16 PM
Sex is one of the most important thing’s in a relationship