Topic: someone special
Ralph 's photo
Sat 06/26/21 08:33 PM
I'm new to this site and wondering if anyone reads the profile before sending messages. It's been discouraging for a good guy that has been in a long time relationship too have to do this. Does no one believe in love anymore

Rock's photo
Sat 06/26/21 08:47 PM
Best of luck.

no photo
Sat 06/26/21 08:53 PM
Hello Ralph waving a warm welcome from NZ .......it would seem many follow their eyes first and mind second . Lots of people do read profiles but fail to respect the contents . Dating sites are just a tool .. don’t be discouraged .. appreciate them for what they offer ... the possibility of a connection., even if the experience can be frustrating .

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Sun 06/27/21 03:24 AM
Almost all of us here have been in long term relationships. It's not like we were single for decades and you're the only one who's different.
Finding love doesn't work if you feel sorry for yourself, maybe you're not ready yet for new love.
Think about how you met your former partner. Likely from a place of happiness, enjoying life etc. If you cannot enjoy finding a new woman maybe get a mail-order bride. Instant gratification. No love.