Topic: I only date...
captainfantastek's photo
Thu 12/27/07 09:26 AM

Everybody has 'personal agendas' of what they want & don't want in a relationship....some of the items get us more unraveled than others.....that's why its a selection process....like when shopping, we select what attracts us most, given the choices....




To some extent I agree with that but I think it is quite deeper when it comes to a woman as compared to a tangible item.

victoriousme's photo
Thu 12/27/07 09:27 AM



What does white and black power have anything to do with who you would like to be with?


It doesn't it was just a comment. Did you read the entire comment?


Yes I did just interpreted it differently.


Oh okay.

victoriousme's photo
Thu 12/27/07 09:28 AM

UI dont care what color or size, Victorious, if they are as classy and beautiful as you are, IM THERE!!!!!flowerforyou


Aww thank you Mikey!blushing

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Thu 12/27/07 09:33 AM
YOu are so very welcome victorious!!!!!!!!flowerforyou drinker

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Thu 12/27/07 09:35 AM


At this point I do not care, Is HE alive and breathing?

laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh :wink:


Amen to that one!


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Thu 12/27/07 09:41 AM
I enjoy dating responsible single men of culture, class, taste, and personality. But its not exclusively. I've been known to date a "jethro" once in awhile. But I am not biased because of past discrepancies and date only one type of person.

victoriousme's photo
Thu 12/27/07 09:44 AM

I enjoy dating responsible single men of culture, class, taste, and personality. But its not exclusively. I've been known to date a "jethro" once in awhile. But I am not biased because of past discrepancies and date only one type of person.


You are not alone. drinker

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Thu 12/27/07 09:53 AM
I could be "Jethro"!!!!noway laugh

Desi1's photo
Thu 12/27/07 10:02 AM

I could be "Jethro"!!!!noway laugh
lol lol lol lol

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Thu 12/27/07 10:41 AM
My 15 year old son only wants to date black women....and he has. All for the wrong reasons and Ive told him that. He is obsessed with black people, wants to be friends with black people. Its the whole rap/gangsta bs.

I wouldnt mind if he dates anyone of a different race but he motives are all messed up.....grumble grumble grumble

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Thu 12/27/07 10:43 AM

"I only date black women." I get these messages from men all the time. My thing is I think that is rude; the only reason you want to date me is because of the color of my skin? Wow, I thought my personality would have a bit to do with it too. Or that killer smile! lol But seriously why do people think it is okay to only date a person because of their race. I love men of ALL races if they can hold my interest. Opinions please! Or am I over reacting.
I agree...it should not be about color....its how they treat you..flowerforyou

victoriousme's photo
Thu 12/27/07 10:55 AM

My 15 year old son only wants to date black women....and he has. All for the wrong reasons and Ive told him that. He is obsessed with black people, wants to be friends with black people. Its the whole rap/gangsta bs.

I wouldnt mind if he dates anyone of a different race but he motives are all messed up.....grumble grumble grumble


Well I hope your son come around. The wrong reasons are not good at all.

zionstyles69's photo
Fri 12/28/07 04:15 PM
Well love, for those who hold to that understanding have yet to learn how to love thier selves. The quality of one's character is by far the best way to determin if they are truley worthy of your affection, not the color of your skin.

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Fri 12/28/07 04:16 PM
White, black, brown, blue doesn't make a bit of difference to me

hikerchick's photo
Fri 12/28/07 05:14 PM
I am a large woman. Somehow I am equally offended by guys who won't consider large women and those who seek out large women. I guess it is because I am a person, not a body. I agree that it is dandy to have preferences but they should be based on internal qualities, not external characteristics. I would not want to date someone who would chose me based on my body size.
To me, that is just weird.

fortsmithman's photo
Sat 12/29/07 08:57 PM
To me it's the inside that matters but there does have to be some physical attraction. But when one finds the one that they are meant to be with age and looks won't matter one bit.

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Sat 12/29/07 08:59 PM
Right now I'd be happy just to get the time of day. ohwell

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Sat 12/29/07 09:01 PM

"I only date black women." I get these messages from men all the time. My thing is I think that is rude; the only reason you want to date me is because of the color of my skin? Wow, I thought my personality would have a bit to do with it too. Or that killer smile! lol But seriously why do people think it is okay to only date a person because of their race. I love men of ALL races if they can hold my interest. Opinions please! Or am I over reacting.


very well put and I agree with you totally !


I will THIRD THAT GIRLS...:heart: drinker flowerforyou

But I have had women TELL me that about black guys....:heart:

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Sat 12/29/07 09:03 PM

Right now I'd be happy just to get the time of day. ohwell
Its 9:01 pm!!!laugh

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Sat 12/29/07 09:04 PM


Right now I'd be happy just to get the time of day. ohwell
Its 9:01 pm!!!laugh


Thanks! Now I can go to sleep