I think you are mis understanding what the guys are saying.
For eg; I only date white women.
What Im saying is that I am more attracted to white women so thats what I want, Im definately NOT saying that all I want is white skin. .
Its a standard, its a deal breaker.
If I meet a woman that has all the inner traits that Im after and looks after herself mentally and physically, but ISNT white; I wont go for her because My thinking is:

"I know that I can find a woman that has the same traits or better and is white (and therefore I will find her more attractive)...so if I go for this woman I will in fact be SETTLING. No woman wants their man to JUST SETTLE for them. Same visa verca.

So when I say "I only date white women" its essentially the same as saying "I only date women that live a healthy fit lifestyle (like mine)"

...We all bleed red...doesnt matter what race a man is to me...but I get the point your trying to say about the messages.

I know that I can find a woman that has the same traits or better and is white (and therefore I will find her more attractive)...so if I go for this woman I will in fact be SETTLING. No woman wants their man to JUST SETTLE for them. Same visa verca.

So when I say "I only date white women" its essentially the same as saying "I only date women that live a healthy fit lifestyle (like mine)"

DUDE,,,im really missing what your saying, that last sentence
has me thinking your prejudice, like???
Are ya SAY that A BLACK WOMAN, CAN"T be healthy and fit?????

No. Im saying that if there are two women, identical except for the colour of their skin (and therefore their facial features will be different); lets say the two are one White and one Black; I will go for the white woman because I find white womens facial features more attractive.

The white woman is *just that bit more attractive* than the black woman.

Im noway saying that black women cant be fit, healthy and beautiful inside and out LOL!

OK,you were losing me.
ITS YOUR PREFERENCE to favor white over black.
I don't do that I see BEAUTY as BEAUTY, no matter the color.
And to say that two beautiful ladies standing in front of YOU to choose the one that was the prettiest.
YOU would SEE the whitegirl was,,,,,BECAUSE WHITE is YOUR PREFERENCE, even if the white girl was cute, and the black girl was beautiful, your preferences will blind you to the black womens beauty......
So, WHAT were YOU saying AGAIN???

I find white womens facial features more attractive. OK.

yes but my main point is that just because a guy says "I only date white women" doesnt mean that he's a shallow minded fool thats only after skin.
if COULD mean that, but it COULD alternatively mean that he believes he deserves what he wants so he holds high/more standards.

I totally agree.. what kind of mugs are we dealing wit anyway.. damn i mean pu$$y is pu$$y who cares what color the box is its comin in

that's nice....you kiss your momma w/ that mouth??

oh pish posh
same thing when black girls say to us mixed guys
I DATE WHITE BOYS ONLY

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!

DUDE you got ALOT to learn about respect.
Its NOT just with women its ALL about RESPECT in LIFE!
RESPECT yourself, and then YOU can learn to love another.

Dude who cares?! There are people who can't score a date for $#!T You are special in the eyes of the beholder, if that is what they are attracted to then so be it. That is like saying "I only date people who are not psycho and financially secure"? That would be acceptable, yes? C'mon. It's all good.