So I'm curious. What do men have against BBW's.... and don't be crude or rude.
I'm a BBW. I've gained and lost weight over the years trying to stay healthy and conform to societies ideas of the perfect woman. I'm 65. To heck with it! It is what it is. We are presentable. We are fun. We are real. We need and want love too. In fact I bet BBW's are even more affectionate and romantic.
Are you perfect after age 60? Few of us are.
Im sure there's lots of older BBW's on here. Give them a chance guys.

I thought everyone in Texas loves BBQ.


Oh...
The BBW thang?
Well, that's an individual preference thing.
You'll find a match.

Depends on the guy.

In general they don't have anything against BBW's.
They do have other options, though.
You are competing against non BBW's. Younger, and older.
Not to mention, you're competing against not dating at all. Hobbies, friends, career, travel, family, other interests, self fulfillment and actualization.


Are you saying that if someone isn't a "BBW" that they aren't "presentable, fun, and real?"

Are you saying that "BBW'ness" is a secret recipe that adds something to personality and character? That without it, those that don't have that "BBW" secret sauce are less, inferior?


OMG. You are. You are basically saying "BBW are better than non BBW, just because we're BBW."


Are you trying to find a single guy to fulfill the entire "BBW" community?
Is this about what you want and need? Or about what the community wants and needs?

Regardless, doesn't really matter what you need and want, except to you.

No one is entitled to anything from anyone.
Sex, relationships, jobs, acceptance, trust, love, whatever.

It's no one's responsibility to give another what they need and want simply for the sake of needing/wanting.
It's up to the individual to go out and get, work towards fulfilling their own needs and wants.

Most (adult) people do this through cooperative efforts.
"I give you what you want, you give me what I want. I work for you, you give me money. I give you money, you give me food. You act trustworthy, I give you trust."
If you want something from someone, you have to give them something they want of equal or (perceived from their perspective, not yours) greater value.

Of course, there's also the option of collaboration. Combining efforts for synergistic effect towards mutually beneficial goals.
Then you have to be/offer something that works together with who/what they are towards something you both want.

Either way, it's not begging someone to provide you something.
Especially not just "because BBW, since BBW is better than non BBW because BBW."


That is your choice.
This is an actual choice you are making.
For every choice, there are consequences, outcomes.


Perfection has nothing to do with it.
It has more to do with competition and attraction.


There are tons (no pun or insult intended).
Just like single mothers.
There is a huge selection to choose from, and to a stranger none are really better than the other.


Is that really what you want?
You really want to receive a first email contact that reads something like "Hey, read your profile. Don't really want to date you. But, well, thought I'd give you a chance. I noticed there were a ton of older BBW's on this site so thought I'd just shotgun a bunch of emails to y'all. Eh. I'll give you a chance. Let me know what giving you a chance gets me, m'kay? TTYL!"

I would give a BBW as much of a chance as she would give me. An sensual man in an open marriage, looking to live life a little fuller. So far, none have offered to enjoy the time

I ride quite often.

First off, I'd like to sit on the seat, not the gas tank. Then, I'd like to be able to put a foot down at a light, or a four way stop, and not have to worry about toppling over. Next in line is my bike going to exceed the weight rating of the bike, or the tires, when that bbw get on with me. I've had a couple rear flats in my life, at speeds above 60 MPH. (One doing 85) I did NOT crash. (Wonder of wonders)

I've ridden since age 12. I'm 65 right now. So, that calculates to 53 years behind the bars. Between being married, and various girlfriends, I've been attached for 25 years. I didn't marry bikes, but since they have always made themselves available to me, and that I've enjoyed them for so long, me and the bike aren't going to part company.

There is no woman that will ever get between me, and two wheels. Want to ask if I would? After I get done laughing, I'll wave bye-bye to you and go riding off into the sunset.

No thank you.

Well, wot makes a BBW more affectionate?

I feel there is more to a person than just looks but then again I'm not in my 20's anymore and look deeper into a person into who a person is.

I a man I love BBW Thick girls Rock🤩

ohh ok so what do when u think about it

All I'm saying is that there is more to a person than just looks. If you want looks why date just see a hooker and be done with it.

BBW are the best
I'm talking from experience
I'm hoping I find one to make me happy again