Topic: This is a dating site right
andreajayne's photo
Wed 12/26/07 10:51 AM

This is not just a dating site. Many ppl are here to make friends or simply socialize. Hint: the option to select what you are looking for, ranging from friendship to intimate encounter. If you are upset ppl don't have photos, then limit your search option to include ppl that do. We all have pet peeves about profiles.

Here are some of mine:
1.)Ppl who write : My kids are my world and will always come first. "Duh" If you need to write that you've no idea how silly that looks.
2.) "If you want to know just ask". No, you take 15 minutes of being thoughtful and introspective and type it out for us. If you can't be bothered, why should I?
3.) Ppl who talk about their previous relationship or negative attitudes about the opposite sex. Get over it! You're advertising you're NOT ready to date.
4.) Ppl whp post photos of themselves with other women/men or their children. Worst yet, professional photos of just this very thing. Take your kids out and crop out the ex!!!

See, you're not alone in your frustration.


I disagree with you one your #1. When people say that, I think it's their way of telling people that if you don't like the fact that I am close to my children, then move on.

Also, I think your #4 is ironic due to the fact that in your pic, you are holding a child.

I do however agree with your # 2 & 3!

buttons's photo
Wed 12/26/07 10:51 AM
Edited by buttons on Wed 12/26/07 10:54 AM
laugh laugh laugh love the edit buttonlaugh laugh bigsmile

no photo
Wed 12/26/07 10:52 AM
Edited by Jistme on Wed 12/26/07 10:55 AM

Also, I think your #4 is ironic due to the fact that in your pic, you are holding a child. ...
That ain't her child...


but feel free to wear me anytime
Ummmm... yet another statement I don't hear everyday....

RealtyLady's photo
Wed 12/26/07 10:52 AM
WOW!!!!! U really have a 4-sting goin' on.............couldn't even do that with original poetry!!!!!!!!!!grumble smokin noway :angry: laugh laugh laugh laugh

andreajayne's photo
Wed 12/26/07 10:54 AM


Also, I think your #4 is ironic due to the fact that in your pic, you are holding a child. ...
That ain't her child...


LOL its still a child!

daniel48706's photo
Wed 12/26/07 11:00 AM

laugh Fallen on a bad day still looks good!! laugh


No fair beating me to the line slow, no fair :tongue:

daniel48706's photo
Wed 12/26/07 11:02 AM

i have both, i even posted a pic of me not looking my greatest,

but sometimes the little avatars like some i have on my profile are fun to play around with and give a good change up.. but i always have at least one of my real photos in my profile


Angle my luv, I have never seen you looking anything other than great happy

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Wed 12/26/07 11:06 AM

This is not just a dating site. Many ppl are here to make friends or simply socialize. Hint: the option to select what you are looking for, ranging from friendship to intimate encounter. If you are upset ppl don't have photos, then limit your search option to include ppl that do. We all have pet peeves about profiles.

Here are some of mine:
1.)Ppl who write : My kids are my world and will always come first. "Duh" If you need to write that you've no idea how silly that looks.
2.) "If you want to know just ask". No, you take 15 minutes of being thoughtful and introspective and type it out for us. If you can't be bothered, why should I?
3.) Ppl who talk about their previous relationship or negative attitudes about the opposite sex. Get over it! You're advertising you're NOT ready to date.
4.) Ppl whp post photos of themselves with other women/men or their children. Worst yet, professional photos of just this very thing. Take your kids out and crop out the ex!!!

See, you're not alone in your frustration.


aint that a kid on your hip?laugh

andreajayne's photo
Wed 12/26/07 11:07 AM
lol thats what i said! laugh laugh laugh

lilith401's photo
Wed 12/26/07 11:08 AM
Edited by lilith401 on Wed 12/26/07 11:10 AM
AndreaJayne

What is cracking me up is that it would ONLY be ironic if it was my child.

When ppl talk about how their children are their world and would always come first, that is a given and not something that needs to be said. If it does, why? All good parents place the child(ren) first. If I have to explain why this is a problem, I won't waste my time trying.

I do have a child and would not show his face on the site. The children posted are not mine and are posted with the permission of their mother(s). If you do not know my reasons for not posting [but how could you, you don't know the definition of irony, after all] then how can you find fault with it?

Are you being judgmental...

no photo
Wed 12/26/07 11:12 AM
I've been on here two days and have received a ridiculous amount of messages from men hitting on me thousands of miles from me due to my pictures. Tempted to put on a funny picture.

no photo
Wed 12/26/07 11:16 AM
I'm tired of lying and telling them I'm a lesbian with herpes.

no photo
Wed 12/26/07 11:19 AM

I'm tired of lying and telling them I'm a lesbian with herpes.
I've tried that too.. with no luck at all....

s1owhand's photo
Wed 12/26/07 11:21 AM
laugh

well just keep posting and they are liable to catch your drift.
(both of you) - they'll catch it eventually.

laugh

andreajayne's photo
Wed 12/26/07 11:23 AM

AndreaJayne

What is cracking me up is that it would ONLY be ironic if it was my child.

When ppl talk about how their children are their world and would always come first, that is a given and not something that needs to be said. If it does, why? All good parents place the child(ren) first. If I have to explain why this is a problem, I won't waste my time trying.

I do have a child and would not show his face on the site. The children posted are not mine and are posted with the permission of their mother(s). If you do not know my reasons for not posting [but how could you, you don't know the definition of irony, after all] then how can you find fault with it?

Are you being judgmental...


WOW! calm down there! I was just stating that I found it ironic, I did not say anything bad to you. I stated my opinion and that is allowed. I do however take offence to the fact that you assume that I do not know what I'm talking about.
I do know the definition to irony, I am not stupid.

I do also think it is ironic that you would NOT subject your own children's faces to the internet, but you have the gall to ask other people for their permission to post their childrens pictures.

no photo
Wed 12/26/07 11:31 AM


I do also think it is ironic that you would NOT subject your own children's faces to the internet, but you have the gall to ask other people for their permission to post their childrens pictures.

Yet again... I find myself saying... We got the point a few posts back.

lilith401's photo
Wed 12/26/07 11:31 AM
AndreaJayne-
I think I took from your comments exactly what they were intended. You quoted my post and then blow by blow landed your opinion.

And keep in mind here, I'm not the one here who is assuming.

Please, please, please look up ironic and practice using it in sentences.

andreajayne's photo
Wed 12/26/07 11:34 AM
I know what it means...

You are the one who blew things out of proportion. My first comment was not to offend you, but posted as a funny.

Have a nice day!

no photo
Wed 12/26/07 11:40 AM
:heart: This is a FRIENDS and dating SITE,,,,,,,to ALOT of US HERE!!!
Not just a place for HOOKING UP, or DATES,,but a place to talk on with others and to meet friends and THEN,,,MAYBE think more of someone than a friend, and ask them out....


And THIS is how I feel being HERE for over a year!!:heart:

I have become FRIENDS with ALOT MORE LADIES HERE, than I could have EVER DATED IN REAL LIFE!!!

And I do NOT just make FRIENDS with women, I have met some great Bro's here to call friends to...drinker smokin

Katertots37's photo
Wed 12/26/07 11:41 AM

:heart: This is a FRIENDS and dating SITE,,,,,,,to ALOT of US HERE!!!
Not just a place for HOOKING UP, or DATES,,but a place to talk on with others and to meet friends and THEN,,,MAYBE think more of someone than a friend, and ask them out....


And THIS is how I feel being HERE for over a year!!:heart:

I have become FRIENDS with ALOT MORE LADIES HERE, than I could have EVER DATED IN REAL LIFE!!!

And I do NOT just make FRIENDS with women, I have met some great Bro's here to call friends to...drinker smokin
drinker flowerforyou i agree T