Many Men think they can handle more than
one woman!

I feel that is a figment of
their imagination.

What does handling even mean?

I only know handle bars to put a bike into the right direction

But seriously, those men you mention, should probably learn how to treat one woman properly, rather than boosting their ego with multiple relationships.

I don't like such competition and comparing.
Man and woman should handle different things well as we're supposed to work together and complement one another. Not compete with one another.
Some things women handle better, others men. Exactly as it's meant to be.

I'm not sure men are competitive in this area. These days it seems women tend to be to prove they can do XYZ themselves and don't need a man.
I don't think I've ever seen a man trying to score points for baking a better cake or cooking better.

It depends on what your definition of "is" is.

Women have more jealousy!

Men are more competitive for women. Imo

Privates

My privates better be bigger than hers.

handling generally means cope ... some men do and can cope with more than one woman .. depends how much drama is involved lol .

Men are supposed to be competitive. Normally this is in sports, but can of course also happen in career etc.
If a man is balanced in his masculinity the competition will be rather friendly. Comradery. Men after a soccer game hugging the other team, swapping shirts, and the mood being friendly as they leave the field.

Women on the other hand are not supposed to be competitive but many are. Towards men but also other women, and they can turn into real nasty biotches.

You make a good point Blondey!





Some men cannot handle one woman! Imo

99+% of all my friends, on and off the internet,
are women.

I'm pretty sure, at least one or two of them,
would cut my balls off, if I step out of line.


Handling/coping, is a mutual between friends,
and isn't gender specific. We all have good days,
and we all have days that just aren't so stellar.


Handling/coping with more than one romantic relationship?
No thanks. I like to go to sleep at night, with my balls
still attached.

Long-term relationship takes work !
depends on the couple how much work.

Oftentimes men don't put in the effort.

What are you basing that on?
I think that's quite the assumption.

First of all you have to put relationships in the contemporary context, not the old-fashioned one of our grandparents or before.
If a relationship requires much work you may better part as then you're likely not a good match (anymore).

And that is also based on my own experiences. Both times the relationship needed lots of work it was past its sell-by date. To then keep struggling to try and get it back on track is a waste of time.
I think in many cases men find it easier to accept that and let go than women.
Doesn't mean the man doesn't hurt of course.

Marriage hasn't changed! People change !

Old fashioned isn't necessarily a bad thing!

Just because society sees it differently, doesn't make it
Ok!



Relationships do take work. That's my Opinion!

Marriage is about 2 people so if people change, marriage changes.

Old fashioned is bad when it holds people back in an obsolete situation.
If old-fashioned always stayed the right thing we'd still be like hunter-gatherers.
We are humans, we are supposed to grow, evolve, adept, change, and become better versions of ourselves and mankind.
Our brains are even designed for that...
Some people may choose to live their lives in the old, which is basically the past and not change with the times.
To each their own.

Couples can grow in a Marriage or relationship!

As long as it's not Abusive.


Marriage does't change with what Society does!



So we definitely can disagree.

The sex can be a bit more interesting but the drama usually kills it. 3 sisters, 3 daughters, first ex had 5 sisters....I'm about dramaed out.

Many men brag.

Yes you are right