What type of lady/or woman would be compatible with me? Who is a 53 year old black man very unique eccentric goofy hippie style hermit homebody who loves/live a very simple quiet private slow pace routine type of lifestyle. I now walk with a cane/knee brace because I was hit by a car in June 2016. Truthfully/unfortunately I definitely don't have any experience at all being with a lady/or woman.

Well, 53 years old is not old. Why have you not had any experience with women?

Someone who likes you? I am sure you must be of interest to a like minded person.

A profile photo wouldn't hurt. Then again, it hasn't helped me, but I have 20 years more seniority to you.

Hippies taught me,
to never trust anyone over 30.

how do you think I feel at 73 a widower the two ladies I took a shine to both only wanted me because they thought I was well off

Hi Keith, aww sorry to hear that the two women dropped you like a hot potato because you are not well off. How did they know this? Did you tell them? Did they ask for you to send them money? If so, they were scammers so forget about them.

Why do you say you are not well off? Aren't a pensioner? Then you have money coming to you every month. Some people don't have that. I say you are well off than others.

I am 74 and I am independent and financially comfortable. I say I am well off too.

Next time you meet a lady, don't start a conversation by saying you are not well off. The lady would wonder why you are telling her that. It's a big turnoff.

Anyway, good luck in your search.

Stay safe

Rosie

well if the op can find someone under those circumstances, hopefully she has a pretty sister...