wow: you are right Im not touching this one either, but do wish him happy times, woman are good and special people

been following this one to see where it was going to go. I feel the dark side of the force is present.

DUDE ther is more to life then getting into
her pant's. like what about the late night talk's
and the moon lite walk's.it's thing called respect.
and all wemen need it. they ant here to take for granted
that's just ant right.sorry that's just me....

I'm sorry!! Maybe it's like that for you, but I'm looking for a long term relationship. Not a sex partner. In a relationship sex is part of sharing intimate parts of each other. In fact, I wouldn't call it sex. I call it making love. Now far as gold diggers, I've ran across a few of them in my quest for a life long partner. They're called scammers. I think you've ran into alot of them and that's why you've posted this topic.

OK, now I am going to jump in head first.

There are some of us who don't even bother thinking about a test drive if we know we cannot afford the car.

Brian, I'm a woman and even I agree with you, it goes both ways you know..

anyone wanna bolt out of this one with me and go to taco bell drive thru. Promise I will bring ya back

Sounds good to me, hes a jerk!

Sounds good to me, Hes a jerk!!!

Amen to that

I am ready

Merry Christmas... I hope your outlook on life changes.

raven and bad.I need an address to pick yas up

bitterness is only but another attachment to illusion that leads to more suffering

other attachments include: desperation for sex, desperation for relationships, and desperation for marriage.

let go of these unecessary needs, including the need to shun other needs with a defense mechanism like bitterness

that, according to buddhism, is the path to enlightenment

The man is saying what he feels..we all don't feel the same way as him and we all don't feelt he same way as what you others have printed..I have a friend who would agree with him(his ex-wife was all about the dollar).To each his own, this is a deep and long thought subject,so I won't give my opinion. But give him some slack, it is his opinion and he has a right to it, right or wrong

no ones really getting on his case too badly...everyones just disagreeing, which they are entitled to

everyone is indeed entitled to their own opinion, but heres the problem. It all starts with one person geting hurt and not forgiving. Then they moveone with out trust and led by the thought I will get them before they can get me, so they in turn hurt someone new who does the same thing as the person before. its a pandemic. if you are hurt, take the time to heal and realize your real person inside before you go out and spread more distrust and pain in the world.

Excellent advise! You know what they say ...

Payback's a b*tch

Again, note worthy talk. I was a bit of a playaaaaaah for a while a few years ago when I had been played. Figured it was my way to 'give back to the community'... but I have a heart and when I hurt more than one man in the process I felt horrible.

I don't seek revenge for any relationships ending in pain now. It's all part of life. Like I tell my kids

"Life is hard. Wear a helmet"

What Taco Bell you hittin' up?

With the way people are practicing relationships now, someone will always get hurt. Everyone wants everything now. I want money now, iwant a big car now, i want sex, now, i want a baby now. Everything now, but what about doing the work for it. Its all a trap. Heres the Baby,Cars,money,and Sex. Now this is the price you have to pay. The people that are willing to put in the time to get what they want are less than the get it now people. We are treating our lives like material things, so Man, or Woman, BEWARE. Stop,Look,and Listen to what is good for a long and prductive life, and stop just letting your bodies be a dumping ground. Thank You