I've been searching several dating sites and most of the guys/men I see are very unattractive. They don't seem to care about what they look like, especially the older men. I like a well-groomed man, who is dressed nice and clean shaving, unless he has a nicely trimmed beard or mustache. I can't seem to find many men like that... Very few. How do these scruffy looking dudes think that they are ever going to meet a nice woman if they don't even bother to clean themselves up. Ridiculous!

Scruffy looking men are smexy!

All that effort I waste and now you tell me

Every teapot has a lid.... that includes you .. crossing my fingers and toes for you

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Haha, I always image Han Solo when I hear the word "scruffy". Smexy as heck with the scruffy look... and even smexier after he made the effort to clean up for Leia.


OT... Hi youngerlooking, I like the way Blondey put it, every teapot has a lid.

We all have preferences, that's a good thing. Sometimes though, when we focus on what we don't want we block ourselves from finding what we do want. And sometimes it takes us being a princess for the prince to finally reveal himself. Kind of like the princess and frog story. Behind that frog was a true prince, but it took the princess seeing his beauty before he "cleaned up" for him to reveal himself to her.

There's plenty of handsome and good decent men out there. And you never know, one of them just might be that one that you are saying no to, simply because he looks a little scruffy.

Best of luck to you.

EYE OF THE BEHOLDER,,,,I HAVE MET WOMEN WHO WHERE BEAUTIFUL THAT WERE NASTY,,,ITS DEALERS CHOICE,,,WILL CRYING HELP ?

chewie was scruffy

Chewie is adorable

Answer: They are all out dating beautiful women.

I think we all need to get all gussied up once in a while nowadays -even if around the house -makes you feel better after letting yourself go during lockdown.

Many men on dating sites seek hookups nothing serious.



A real Man may just live in our own City.

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