I met someone here. I liked her. We share the same interests. We talked a lot until she said she need to go out for awhile. She messaged me when she got back but I fell asleep for 3 hours and didn't replied her messages. When I finally woke up and open the messages she was already gone. She deleted her account. So sad. She said she liked me and she said she wanted to meet me. We talked of how we would meet. She promised she wouldn't leave me. But she lied and she left me. I guess she's not the one or she was just scammer. Really can't stop crying.

Still, if there is any where to reach her. I want to reach her.
I wonder if she would ever read this by any chance.

Sometimes instead of logging out people deactivate their account instead . I do this this often , ( stops hoards of messages from people being sent ) so it could be something as simple as that .

Or yes she could have been a scammer and she got removed by the site , or she could have done it to leave the site herself .

1. Mother discovered what twelve-year-boy was doing on computer in basement.

2. Wife checked husbands phone records.

3. Husband checked wife's phone records.

4. Scammers' credit was declined at internet cafe in Nigeria.

5. It's the internet. Not real life. Move on.

Not to sound cynical or harsh ..... but did you share personal information with her ..either she got what she wanted from you ...(Or didn’t get what she wanted .. ie your email /phone number ).
She met someone else ...
She had no intention of taking things any further with you ...
As for her deactivation .. the reason is in most cases irrelevant .., it is still a red flag ... learn and move on


Oh and motto is right ...the internet can be a place of deception .. .. stay safe .