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Topic: LONG DISTANCE LOVERS
EddieCA Joined Thu 11/29/07 Posts: 498	Sun 12/23/07 05:11 PM
I think there is scientific evidence somewhere that states that long distance relationships DO NOT WORK... Personally, I think if you have to go across four states to find someone, you're not looking hard enough where you're at... Good point John

EddieCA Joined Thu 11/29/07 Posts: 498	Sun 12/23/07 05:12 PM
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Leopard doesn't change their spots etc... AMEN!!

lulapr Joined Tue 07/10/07 Posts: 71	Sun 12/23/07 05:14 PM
Hi all- Fortunate to say, I differ from all. I had a LONG distance relationship for 3yrs. I live in PR and he lives in NY. We spoke everyday, we would visit every other weekend (I'd fly up or he'd fly down!) Trust was never an issue. In the long run we couldn't decide who should relocate...I wanted to stay here because my kids' Dad is a good Dad and he said he couldn't deal with the slow pace of PR so...eventually we, broke up because we fell out of love. Your heart/soul really know whom you should trust. That little voice is 'real'...listen to it. I don't regret it one bit. Would I do it again..if my heart told me!

HITALKTOME Joined Sun 12/23/07 Posts: 71	Sun 12/23/07 05:17 PM
as long as both work at it it will prevail

Sexyklp4U Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 3377	Sun 12/23/07 05:23 PM
I know people on this site that have hooked up that lived in different states..so, ya never know..its u just click with someone and the chemistry is there..hey, go for it.,

Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Sun 12/23/07 05:26 PM
How can a person hold true the faith of love, the commitments of loveing someone having only seen there photos on line or perhaps a phone call from time to time. Where should we draw the line in the sand and say its just to far? How far can true love travel and still hold strong? Even an hour away, only seeing each other once a week can be hard. Especially when you realize that since neither one wants to move to the other city, where can the relationship really go. Also been involved and watched others involved with long distant military relationships. In the end, it is a lot of work and effort for something that will only work out a very small fraction of the time. Just my thoughts on it.

justme659 Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 6144	Sun 12/23/07 05:30 PM
I think it boils down to this.. What are you willing to invest in the relationship? What are you willing to give up to achieve those goals. Will you feel cheated if the other person doesnt give the same. How much can you and the other person compromise and trust? You know it goes the same for all realationships, near and far.

hilyf Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 713	Sun 12/23/07 05:31 PM
met someone once years back. talked for about a year, she came to see me for a few weeks. Then went home and ended up coming back and getting married.....lol. this was west to east coast.

hilyf Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 713	Sun 12/23/07 05:31 PM
course years later got divorced......lol. oh well.

EddieCA Joined Thu 11/29/07 Posts: 498	Sun 12/23/07 05:37 PM
Maybe i should just say that it would depend on the people involved in the relationships.

Sexyklp4U Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 3377	Sun 12/23/07 05:41 PM
Maybe i should just say that it would depend on the people involved in the relationships. yes...it takes two to tango!! wish u were closer though, eddie..i'd date ya..

EddieCA Joined Thu 11/29/07 Posts: 498	Sun 12/23/07 05:45 PM
Maybe i should just say that it would depend on the people involved in the relationships. yes...it takes two to tango!! wish u were closer though, eddie..i'd date ya.. Awww, thats so sweet of you to say.. i had the same thought about you myself though..

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Sun 12/23/07 05:47 PM
most people need touch for one.... i admit im a fool liked someone thought for 3 months it would work out.... till i met them! waste of time...

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Sun 12/23/07 05:48 PM
wait ill correct myself.... waste of time waiting to meet someone long distance and not go on with your life and meet others if u have opportunity..... not if after u met i havent experienced that yet.... so dont know about that eddie

Sexyklp4U Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 3377	Sun 12/23/07 05:51 PM
Maybe i should just say that it would depend on the people involved in the relationships. yes...it takes two to tango!! wish u were closer though, eddie..i'd date ya.. Awww, thats so sweet of you to say.. i had the same thought about you myself though..

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14519	Sun 12/23/07 06:33 PM
Set my searches to a 50 mile limit.

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Sun 12/23/07 10:36 PM
How can a person hold true the faith of love, the commitments of loveing someone having only seen there photos on line or perhaps a phone call from time to time. Where should we draw the line in the sand and say its just to far? How far can true love travel and still hold strong? If it is love then no lines should be drawn. Love can travel as far as you will let it and if you both feel it then there is no distance love can't survive.

EddieCA Joined Thu 11/29/07 Posts: 498	Mon 12/24/07 04:26 AM
^%$%$^%$^%%^$$ MERRY CHRISTMAS FOLKS%&%&^%^&%&^%&^%&^%675

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Mon 12/24/07 01:34 PM
^%$%$^%$^%%^$$ MERRY CHRISTMAS FOLKS%&%&^%^&%&^%&^%&^%675 Merry Christmas back at you Eddie

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Mon 12/24/07 04:45 PM
So Eddie, The Expert, in your infinite wisdom, a long distance relationship doesn't work....why? Four states? What about different countries? And why wouldn't that work? All you have done in this thread is shown your own narrow perceptions. I am interested to hear why these cannot work, and how you have gained this knowledge, based on what?