Topic: Time to find friends and love is an important point for buil
SuShan's photo
Wed 09/02/20 09:01 PM
What happens when she or her boyfriend is present instead of a friend? When you leave your friends for a romantic relationship, what do you really lose? Time to find friends and love is an important point in building a good relationship.
It is common for lovers to reduce the time spent with friends. Due to the temporary craze phenomenon, the plan with the lover seems more interesting.
I want to meet new lovers and enjoy the beginning of this interesting relationship. Your feelings will turn to this new situation. But don't give up your friends.
Emotional compensation
A research team led by Robin Dunbar studied this issue, and when we came with someone, we lost 2 of 5 close friends. In addition, we spent time with each friend and found that a couple has a certain sense of distance and a satisfying romantic atmosphere to a certain extent.
This is because you can spend time to bring comfort and happiness to yourself by feeling distant and using time separately. It will bring happy love and interpersonal relationships will become stronger.
Love will come and go. But friendship will never die with time. Therefore, it is very important to get along with friends anytime, anywhere. Robin Dunbar’s research shows that choosing to share time with your lover rather than giving everything to your lover is a good thing.
This does not mean that you can ignore your lover. Here, you should find some time you like to spend with other important people.
Give up everything for love
This idea seems to be a universal, seemingly romantic idea, but to give up all love is to give up oneself. Even if you "give up" everything, two people will not be the same person. It can be said that we are very dependent. Then, you lose your character and do something like an alliance. These two incomplete people are our allies to hide what we have lost.
Such things are not love. Love is respecting time, the lives of friends and lovers. This is to share that the other party chose you, not to be united. In addition to love, couples who have a private space can also strengthen their relationship by communicating with trust, thereby reducing negative effects.
"Everyone gives up love" is a selfish decision. Besides, if love disappears, you will have nothing. Then, more difficult situations than breaking up are waiting.
Let's set aside time for hobbies, keep our space, friendship, etc. I believe this will bring a more fulfilling life. You will never forget it.
Emotional compensation
True friendship also takes time
Friendship relationships also require time and understanding, such as romantic relationships. Let us have a more honest and caring time, unless you can be together as before. Play is very important.
Friendship is also love. So, just like a beautiful garden, let us find time, pay attention and care about it. After all, it depends on you. Let us not break this beautiful relationship just because a new relationship begins.
I can hardly think of my friend neglecting himself because of love, and then returning to himself to regain the void. This should be painful, and I don't want anyone to be abandoned. The important thing is that true friendship is permanent.
Emotional compensation
If you really have love and friendship, which one would you choose?

I am Susan from China. Thank you very much for your patience in completing my long speech. Hope you can leave me a message to tell you your choice. I am looking for a lover who can accompany me throughout my life.

BlondeBlueRealGoodPlayWYou's photo
Wed 09/02/20 11:18 PM
Exceptionally well thought out, arranged, and written. It must have taken a big chunk of your time. But in MHO its well worth it for the points are spot on.

Delve in to what makes/defines a friend. You will find its.subjective. And oft fair weather ones blow like a typhoon, but its the ones you don't know forever--the newbies..ones whom like you grow in to with tenure. For those are not good friends because of how long you have known them, but rather how well They want to know You.
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SuShan's photo
Thu 09/03/20 12:27 AM
I listened to your suggestion. Nice to meet you.

jugari007's photo
Thu 09/03/20 08:12 AM
Edited by jugari007 on Thu 09/03/20 08:23 AM
But you are in HongKong, too far, how will you find someone too far.

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Tom4Uhere's photo
Thu 09/03/20 08:22 AM
Friendship is a quiet walk in the park with the one you trust.
Love is when you feel like you are the only two around.

Friendship is when they gaze into your eyes and you know they care.
Love is when they gaze into your eyes and it warms your heart.

Friendship is being close even when you are far apart.
Love is when you can still feel their hand on your heart
when they are not near.

Friendship is hoping that they experience the very best.
Love is when you bring them the very best.

Friendship occupies your mind.
Love occupies your soul.

Friendship is knowing that you will always try to be there
when in need.
Love is when you will give up everything to be at their side.

Friendship is a warm smile in the winter.
Love is a warming touch that sends a pulse through your heart.

Love is a beautiful smile to which nothing compares:
A tender laugh, which opens your heart,
A single touch that melts away your fears,
A smell that reminds you of the tenderness of heaven,
A voice that reminds you of the innocence of youth.

Friendship can survive without love.
Love cannot live without friendship.

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Thu 09/03/20 10:54 AM
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